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sexual disappointment

Episode 310 – Overcoming Sexual Disappointment

  • Post published:March 29, 2024

Sexual disappointment is a complex emotion. Whenever we have expectations and those expectations aren’t being met, it’s natural to be disappointed. But what really matters is how we deal with…

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men's mental health

Episode 309 – Are You Using Your Wife for Sex?

  • Post published:March 22, 2024

When asked, “Are you using your wife for sex?”, most men would say, "Absolutely not”! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they…

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relational listening

Episode 308 – Relational Listening – An Essential Sexual Conversation Skill

  • Post published:March 15, 2024

In this episode, let’s talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox - relational listening. What is relational listening? It’s more than hearing, it’s understanding. So,…

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sexual desire

Episode 307 – 3 Things That Affect Sexual Desire

  • Post published:March 8, 2024

Sexual desire is much more complex than many of us are led to believe. Desire is multifaceted and must be examined from a biological, psychological, and sociological standpoint. Why do…

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sexual relationship

Episode 306 – The Four Things We All Want in our Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:March 1, 2024

I’ve been thinking a lot about what we all want in our relationships and what that means to our relationships. So, today I’m going to share with you the four…

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women's hormones

Episode 305 – What Every Couple Needs To Know About Women’s Hormones – An Interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson

  • Post published:February 23, 2024

I am so excited for you to hear this interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson. We talk about what you and your partner need to know about women’s hormones. We as…

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female-centric sex

Episode 304 – Female-Centric Sex

  • Post published:February 16, 2024

I know that some of us, both men and women, feel that female-centric sex is selfish. But it absolutely is not! Let’s talk about why women may not want to…

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money matters

Episode 303 – The Common Thread Between Money & Sex

  • Post published:February 9, 2024

At first thought, money and sex may not seem to have a lot in common. But if you think about it, when you improve something about your relationship, it often…

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grow sexually

Episode 302 – When Your Partner Won’t Grow Sexually

  • Post published:February 2, 2024

Sex, intimacy, and personal growth are all tied together. And when your partner doesn’t want to grow sexually, but you do, it can cause a lot of conflict. It’s not…

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mature sexuality

Episode 301 – Mature Feminine Sexuality

  • Post published:January 26, 2024

I recently was a guest on the Live Your Why podcast with Tammy Hill. I thought the episode was so good, I asked Tammy if I could share it with…

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300th episode

Episode 300 – Celebrating 300 Episodes!

  • Post published:January 19, 2024

Wow! Episode 300! I can hardly believe it! I remember nearly six years ago when I started this podcast that I could hardly imagine what 100 episodes would look like,…

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enjoy the journey

Episode 299 – Focus On The Journey, Not The Destination

  • Post published:January 12, 2024

Have you ever been on a road trip and heard the words, “Are we there yet?” That person is just focused on the destination, not the journey itself. The same…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want

    Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
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    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life
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    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
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