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transactional marriage

Episode 252 – A Transactional versus Relational Marriage

  • Post published:February 17, 2023
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My clients often have transactional relationships with their spouses without even realizing it. In this episode, I want to explain what a transactional marriage is, why we don’t want it…

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Episode 251 – Empowered Sexuality

  • Post published:February 10, 2023
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What is empowerment? More importantly, how can we be sexually empowered? In this episode, we’re going to not only answer these questions, but also how to know if we are…

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Episode 250 – Becoming the Hero of Your Own Story: An Interview with Joey Mascio

  • Post published:February 3, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Joey Mascio. He is a fellow life coach and good friend who normally works with teens helping them become the hero of their own…

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Episode 249 – Overcoming Sexual Shame || Embracing You Teaser

  • Post published:January 27, 2023
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I’m excited to share with you a teaser for my new subscription podcast, Embracing You. In this Embracing You episode, I talk to Emily about how shame is affecting her…

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Episode 247 – Enthusiastic Consent

  • Post published:January 13, 2023
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What is enthusiastic consent and why do we need to talk about it? That’s what we’re going to delve into in this episode. We have to enthusiastically consent to sex…

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Episode 246 – What is a Covenant Marriage? – An Interview with Aimée Gianni

  • Post published:January 6, 2023
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In this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. So often we stay in our broken marriages because we…

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Episode 245 – How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal Hansen

  • Post published:December 30, 2022
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In this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict actually builds intimacy in your marriage. I know this sounds…

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Episode 244 – How My Spouse’s Faith Journey Affected Our Sex Life – An Interview with Lisa Frehner

  • Post published:December 23, 2022
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Often in marriage, if there is disconnect in one part of the relationship, there is also disconnect in the bedroom. That’s how I came to know my guest today, Lisa.…

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Episode 243 – Masturbation Within Marriage

  • Post published:December 16, 2022
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My most downloaded podcast episode is #134 - Masturbation and the Church. I published this episode over 2 years ago and it’s still something I get asked about all of…

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Episode 242 – How To Flirt

  • Post published:December 9, 2022
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I recently had a client tell me that she has forgotten how to flirt. She wanted to find a way to make her marriage feel like more of a partnership…

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Episode 241 – Why Women Don’t Reach Orgasm

  • Post published:December 2, 2022
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I often have women come to me wondering why they’ve never had an orgasm. I realize how frustrating it is for both the wife and the husband. I want to…

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Episode 240 – How Believing You Are a Good Mom Can Help in the Bedroom: An Interview with Emily Wardrop

  • Post published:November 25, 2022
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You may look at the title of this podcast and think, “What does being a good mom have to do with the bedroom?” My guest, Emily Wardrop of Drop the…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 384 – The Difference Between Safety and Security in the Sexual Relationship

    In this episode, we’re unpacking a powerful insight that could completely transform the way you experience intimacy in your marriage. It’s all about the surprising difference between safety and security in your sexual relationship and why understanding it might be the missing piece to reigniting the passion you’ve been longing for. Most people think they’re the same thing, but once you see the distinction, it can change everything about the way you connect with your spouse.

     

    Sources: Safety vs. Security concept credit: Whitni Miller (BDEmoves on Instagram) on “You Are Not Broken” podcast with Dr. Kelly Casperson Episode: “325. Sex, Safety and Embodied Intimacy” (July 5, 2025) Link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-are-not-broken/id1495710329?i=1000715944578&r=495

    “Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence” by Esther Perel

     

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