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you are enough

Episode 322 – Feeling Like You Are Never Enough Sexually

  • Post published:June 21, 2024
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Have you ever felt like you weren’t enough in your life? Most people do, but when that feeling creeps into the bedroom, it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Maybe…

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sexual martyrdom

Episode 321 – Sexual Martyrdom

  • Post published:June 14, 2024
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In this episode, we are going to talk about a topic that’s all too common but not often discussed—sexual martyrdom in marriage. I’ll answer questions like: What does it mean…

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sex as a bandaid

Episode 320 – Using Sex As A Bandaid

  • Post published:June 7, 2024
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A while ago, I was at an event with a lot of other women. A woman sat down next to me and asked, “What if the sex is really good,…

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Episode 319 – Managing Your Spouse and their Sexuality

  • Post published:May 31, 2024
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In this episode, we’re tackling a delicate and crucial topic: managing your spouse’s sexuality. What does this mean? Why do people do it? How does it affect both higher desire…

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Episode 318 – The Sexual Stories That Hurt Our Relationship

  • Post published:May 24, 2024
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When it comes to life, our perception is our reality. And these perceptions also shape our sexual relationships. Unfortunately, we often look at these perceptions as facts rather than realizing…

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Episode 317 – Measuring the Quality of Our Marriage

  • Post published:May 17, 2024
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We often check in with our finances, our physical health, or our mental health, so why not our relationship health? In this episode, we will talk about why we should…

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if you love me

Episode 316 – If You Love Me…

  • Post published:May 10, 2024
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“If you love me…” I’ve been seeing this phrase thrown around quite a lot lately. My clients often tell me that their spouse has said, “If you love me, you’d…

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Episode 315 – The Burden of Initiating

  • Post published:May 3, 2024
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Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should…

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Episode 314 – Sexual Resentment

  • Post published:April 26, 2024
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Sexual Resentment is a complex emotion where we feel our needs are not being met in one way or another. If we take a step back and look at the…

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uplevel your sex life

Episode 313 – Level 3 Sex

  • Post published:April 19, 2024
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For the last couple of episodes, we’ve been talking about the different levels of sex. So, in this episode, we’re going to talk about the pinnacle of marital intimacy -…

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Episode 312 – Level 2 Sex

  • Post published:April 12, 2024
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In the last podcast, we talked about Level 1 Sex, what it is, and what we can do about it. So, in this podcast, we are talking about Level 2…

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Episode 311 – Level 1 Sex

  • Post published:April 5, 2024
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In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might resonate with many of you - Level 1 Sex. What is it? What isn’t it? And most importantly, how can…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve

    What if the very thing you’re doing to improve your sex life is actually making it worse? In this episode, I’m breaking down the “fix-it” mentality so many men bring into their relationship and why it creates pressure, shame, and disconnection instead of desire. I share what to do instead, including how to be present, listen without trying to solve, and approach intimacy as a team. We also talk about what this shift looks like in real conversations and how both partners can take ownership of their part. When you stop trying to fix your spouse and start truly seeing them, you create the conditions where real connection and desire can grow.

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