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Fantasy vs Reality

Episode 328 – Fantasy vs Desire

  • Post published:August 2, 2024
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I’ve noticed a lot of people expressing problems with their spouse’s fantasies. They don’t understand certain fantasies, and they are afraid that their spouse wants to turn them into reality.…

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healthy couples

Episode 327 – Traits of Healthy Couples

  • Post published:July 26, 2024
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Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Many of us don’t because our parents didn’t know what a healthy couple looked like either. But we can change that…

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conflict

Episode 326 – Mining for Conflict to Increase Intimacy

  • Post published:July 19, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about something that may make you feel a little uncomfortable - mining for conflict. It is absolutely crucial for the health and intimacy…

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when sex is hard

Episode 325 – Why Sex Seems So Hard

  • Post published:July 12, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about a question I get asked all of the time. It’s said in different ways, but it all comes down to this -…

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Episode 324 – Are Devices Hurting Your Sex Life?

  • Post published:July 5, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about something that is more and more relevant in our digital age - how devices are hurting marriages and sexual relationships. Because this…

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quality over quantity

Episode 323 – How Much Sex is Normal in Marriage?

  • Post published:June 28, 2024
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This is something I get asked all the time! I understand why people want to know, but the answer isn’t so black and white. In this episode we’re going to…

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you are enough

Episode 322 – Feeling Like You Are Never Enough Sexually

  • Post published:June 21, 2024
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Have you ever felt like you weren’t enough in your life? Most people do, but when that feeling creeps into the bedroom, it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Maybe…

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sexual martyrdom

Episode 321 – Sexual Martyrdom

  • Post published:June 14, 2024
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In this episode, we are going to talk about a topic that’s all too common but not often discussed—sexual martyrdom in marriage. I’ll answer questions like: What does it mean…

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sex as a bandaid

Episode 320 – Using Sex As A Bandaid

  • Post published:June 7, 2024
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A while ago, I was at an event with a lot of other women. A woman sat down next to me and asked, “What if the sex is really good,…

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Episode 319 – Managing Your Spouse and their Sexuality

  • Post published:May 31, 2024
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In this episode, we’re tackling a delicate and crucial topic: managing your spouse’s sexuality. What does this mean? Why do people do it? How does it affect both higher desire…

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Episode 318 – The Sexual Stories That Hurt Our Relationship

  • Post published:May 24, 2024
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When it comes to life, our perception is our reality. And these perceptions also shape our sexual relationships. Unfortunately, we often look at these perceptions as facts rather than realizing…

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Episode 317 – Measuring the Quality of Our Marriage

  • Post published:May 17, 2024
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We often check in with our finances, our physical health, or our mental health, so why not our relationship health? In this episode, we will talk about why we should…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage

    When sexual rejection builds up in a marriage, it rarely stays contained to the bedroom. It seeps into everything — the emotional atmosphere, the small daily gestures, and eventually the belief that anything will ever change. In this episode, we dig into why rejection hurts as much as it does, how to stop interpreting your wife’s “no” as a verdict on your worth, what curiosity can open up that shutting down never will, and what it actually costs you when the hurt never gets processed. We also talk about what your wife experiences when she sees how you react to her no — and why that matters more than most husbands realize.

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