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sexual shame in men

Episode 355 – Sexual Shame in Men

  • Post published:February 7, 2025

A few weeks ago, we talked about prolonged arousal and I touched on sexual shame in men. I promised then that I’d do an entire episode about it because it…

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Valentine's Day relationship tips

Episode 354 – Preparing for Valentine’s Day

  • Post published:January 31, 2025

Valentine’s Day is coming up! Does that thought fill you with excitement or dread? Often when we think about Valentine’s Day, we dream up this scene straight from the movies…

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prolonging arousal techniques

Episode 353 – Unconditional Love in Marriage

  • Post published:January 24, 2025

When we think about unconditional love, it always sounds romantic and exciting, right? We’ve all seen the romcoms where they have the kind of love that never falters, regardless of…

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prolonging arousal techniques

Episode 352 – Prolonging Arousal for Men

  • Post published:January 17, 2025

Want to make your intimate moments last longer? In this episode, we’re diving into the secrets of prolonging arousal for men, exploring everything from practical techniques and medication options to…

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Nice Guy Syndrome

Episode 351 – Why Is She Not Attracted To Me?

  • Post published:January 10, 2025

Have you ever found yourself wondering why your wife doesn’t seem to be attracted to you? After all, you do everything you’re “supposed” to do, you’ve been told it works,…

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eroticism in marriage

Episode 350 – The Difference Between Sexuality and Eroticism

  • Post published:January 3, 2025

When was the last time you felt alive in your marriage? Has it been a while? The longer we’re married, the more sex can become something else on our to-do…

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respect vs. objectification in marriage

Episode 349 – Objectifying Your Spouse

  • Post published:December 27, 2024

Men and women have been conditioned to think that the word “objectifying” is bad. True, it can feel unsettling but sexual relationships thrive when there is a sense of desire…

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sexual surrender in marriage

Episode 348 – Sexual Surrendering

  • Post published:December 20, 2024

In this episode, I am going to explore the topic of Sexual Surrender. What does it mean to fully open up, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally with your…

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introverts vs extroverts marriage

Episode 347 – Sexual Introverts vs Sexual Extroverts

  • Post published:December 13, 2024

As with most things, introverts and extroverts approach sex differently. Where introverts often prefer to have time to prepare, extroverts love spontaneity. So when an extrovert marries an introvert, there…

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how to build connection in marriage

Episode 346 – How To Get More Connection

  • Post published:December 6, 2024

We, as humans, are wired for connection, but connection, especially in marriage, is more than just a feeling. It’s the thing that keeps us going through the inevitable ups and…

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collaborative sexual relationship tips

Episode 345 – Building a Collaborative Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:November 29, 2024

Creating a collaborative sexual relationship is so important to your marriage. Collaboration is different from compromise where it’s not just about teamwork, or giving in, but about a mutual commitment…

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sexual caretaking in relationships

Episode 344 – Sexual Caretaking

  • Post published:November 22, 2024

Do you find yourself worrying more about your partner during your sexual experience than you do yourself? When we feel overly responsible for other’s emotional or physical experience during sex,…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 439 – Why the Changes You Make Never Last

    Most couples who come to me have already tried. They have read the books, taken the courses, sat with a therapist, and walked out with a plan they both believed in. And it worked, for a few weeks, maybe a few months, before everything slid back to exactly where it was. In this episode I use an iceberg model I heard Brene Brown describe to explain why that keeps happening. The problem you can see is only the tip. Through the story of one couple who made the same plan five separate times, I walk down all four layers and show why the changes you make never last, and what actually has to shift for them to hold.

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