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sexual transmutation

Episode 361 – Sexual Transmutation

  • Post published:March 21, 2025

We often think of sexual energy as just desire, attraction, or physical connection—but what if it’s so much more? What if this energy could fuel your creativity, ambition, personal growth,…

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external control in relationships

Episode 360 – Your Sexual Locus of Control

  • Post published:March 14, 2025

I often hear from my clients the phrase, “If only…” If only my spouse would want more sex, then I could stop feeling so frustrated. If only my spouse would…

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Loving your spouse well

Episode 359 – Why “Do You Love Me” Is the Wrong Question

  • Post published:March 7, 2025

We’ve all said it at one time or another - “Do you love me?” While it seems like an innocent question, what I’ve found from working with countless couples is…

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good boy syndrome

Episode 358 – Overcoming Good Boy Syndrome

  • Post published:February 28, 2025

Have you ever wondered if men experience the same pressures to be 'good' that women do? Last week, we uncovered the hidden struggles of Good Girl Syndrome—but what about the…

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good girl syndrome

Episode 357 – Overcoming Good Girl Syndrome

  • Post published:February 21, 2025

What is Good Girl Syndrome? Let me answer like this - have you ever found yourself hesitating to explore your desires? Have you ever felt guilty when expressing your needs…

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freedom and sexual desire

Episode 356 – Sexual Freedom

  • Post published:February 14, 2025

Have you ever thought about what drives your sexual desire? One key factor is the freedom we feel in our lives. Freedom plays a vital role in fostering vibrant sexuality…

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sexual shame in men

Episode 355 – Sexual Shame in Men

  • Post published:February 7, 2025

A few weeks ago, we talked about prolonged arousal and I touched on sexual shame in men. I promised then that I’d do an entire episode about it because it…

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Episode 354 – Preparing for Valentine’s Day

  • Post published:January 31, 2025

Valentine’s Day is coming up! Does that thought fill you with excitement or dread? Often when we think about Valentine’s Day, we dream up this scene straight from the movies…

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prolonging arousal techniques

Episode 353 – Unconditional Love in Marriage

  • Post published:January 24, 2025

When we think about unconditional love, it always sounds romantic and exciting, right? We’ve all seen the romcoms where they have the kind of love that never falters, regardless of…

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prolonging arousal techniques

Episode 352 – Prolonging Arousal for Men

  • Post published:January 17, 2025

Want to make your intimate moments last longer? In this episode, we’re diving into the secrets of prolonging arousal for men, exploring everything from practical techniques and medication options to…

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Nice Guy Syndrome

Episode 351 – Why Is She Not Attracted To Me?

  • Post published:January 10, 2025

Have you ever found yourself wondering why your wife doesn’t seem to be attracted to you? After all, you do everything you’re “supposed” to do, you’ve been told it works,…

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eroticism in marriage

Episode 350 – The Difference Between Sexuality and Eroticism

  • Post published:January 3, 2025

When was the last time you felt alive in your marriage? Has it been a while? The longer we’re married, the more sex can become something else on our to-do…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 445 – What a Healthy Sexual Relationship Actually Looks Like

    Most couples can describe exactly what is wrong with their sex life. Ask them what they want instead, and the room goes quiet. This episode lays out what a healthy sexual relationship actually looks like, starting with six principles of sexual health as the bare minimum and then going well past them. You will hear why one-sided sex quietly wears a marriage down, what a real yes sounds like, why saying no should never cost you anything, and why being known by your spouse matters more than any technique. If nobody ever gave you a picture of what you are building toward, this episode gives you one.

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