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Episode 352 – Prolonging Arousal for Men

  • Post published:January 17, 2025
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Want to make your intimate moments last longer? In this episode, we’re diving into the secrets of prolonging arousal for men, exploring everything from practical techniques and medication options to…

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Episode 351 – Why Is She Not Attracted To Me?

  • Post published:January 10, 2025
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Have you ever found yourself wondering why your wife doesn’t seem to be attracted to you? After all, you do everything you’re “supposed” to do, you’ve been told it works,…

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Episode 350 – The Difference Between Sexuality and Eroticism

  • Post published:January 3, 2025
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When was the last time you felt alive in your marriage? Has it been a while? The longer we’re married, the more sex can become something else on our to-do…

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Episode 349 – Objectifying Your Spouse

  • Post published:December 27, 2024
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Men and women have been conditioned to think that the word “objectifying” is bad. True, it can feel unsettling but sexual relationships thrive when there is a sense of desire…

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Episode 348 – Sexual Surrendering

  • Post published:December 20, 2024
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In this episode, I am going to explore the topic of Sexual Surrender. What does it mean to fully open up, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally with your…

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Episode 347 – Sexual Introverts vs Sexual Extroverts

  • Post published:December 13, 2024
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As with most things, introverts and extroverts approach sex differently. Where introverts often prefer to have time to prepare, extroverts love spontaneity. So when an extrovert marries an introvert, there…

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Episode 346 – How To Get More Connection

  • Post published:December 6, 2024
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We, as humans, are wired for connection, but connection, especially in marriage, is more than just a feeling. It’s the thing that keeps us going through the inevitable ups and…

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Episode 345 – Building a Collaborative Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:November 29, 2024
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Creating a collaborative sexual relationship is so important to your marriage. Collaboration is different from compromise where it’s not just about teamwork, or giving in, but about a mutual commitment…

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Episode 344 – Sexual Caretaking

  • Post published:November 22, 2024
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Do you find yourself worrying more about your partner during your sexual experience than you do yourself? When we feel overly responsible for other’s emotional or physical experience during sex,…

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Episode 343 – Sexual Shame

  • Post published:November 15, 2024
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In this episode, we are going to address a topic that so many struggle with but often don’t talk about: sexual shame. Many carry the burden of sexual shame and…

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Episode 342 – Rekindling Love and Attraction

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Do you know the #1 thing that people google to get to my website? “I’m not attracted to my spouse.” Relationships are a complex thing and it’s natural to have…

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Episode 341 – Building More Gratitude Into Your Sexual Relationship

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Thanksgiving is a natural time to talk about what we’re grateful for, but we often forget to include our sexual relationship on that list. Gratitude is such a powerful force…

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    Sex for Saints
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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

    Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

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    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
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