Skip to content
Amanda Louder Coaching
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • CONTACT ME
  • GET HELP!
    • WOMEN’S MEMBERSHIP
    • COUPLES COACHING
    • INDIVIDUAL COACHING
    • ENGAGED COUPLES COURSE
    • FREE CLASS – THE INTRICACIES OF WOMEN’S DESIRE
    • STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE – LIVE CLASS
    • FAQ
  • EVENTS
    • RETREATS
    • UPLEVEL COUPLES RETREAT
    • SEX SUMMIT 2025
    • SEX SUMMIT BUNDLE
  • PODCAST
    • DIRECTORY
    • FREE PODCAST GUIDE
  • RESOURCES
    • RESOURCES
    • FREEBIES
    • INTERVIEWS
    • ARTICLES
  • GUEST SPEAKING
  • EMBRACE YOU!
  • Toggle website search
Menu Close
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • CONTACT ME
  • GET HELP!
    • WOMEN’S MEMBERSHIP
    • COUPLES COACHING
    • INDIVIDUAL COACHING
    • ENGAGED COUPLES COURSE
    • FREE CLASS – THE INTRICACIES OF WOMEN’S DESIRE
    • STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE – LIVE CLASS
    • FAQ
  • EVENTS
    • RETREATS
    • UPLEVEL COUPLES RETREAT
    • SEX SUMMIT 2025
    • SEX SUMMIT BUNDLE
  • PODCAST
    • DIRECTORY
    • FREE PODCAST GUIDE
  • RESOURCES
    • RESOURCES
    • FREEBIES
    • INTERVIEWS
    • ARTICLES
  • GUEST SPEAKING
  • EMBRACE YOU!
  • Toggle website search

Podcast

  1. Home>
  2. Blog>
  3. Podcast>
  4. Page 5
marriage myths debunked

Episode 381 – Bad Marriage Advice

  • Post published:August 8, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

Is the marriage advice you’ve heard actually helping or quietly hurting your relationship? In this episode, Amanda interviews marriage coach and author Monica Tanner about her new book Bad Marriage…

Continue ReadingEpisode 381 – Bad Marriage Advice
marriage myths debunked

Episode 380 – Learning to Sit with Disappointment

  • Post published:August 1, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

What if the key to deeper intimacy was learning how to handle disappointment? In this episode, we’re talking about the one feeling most of us spend our lives avoiding, disappointment,…

Continue ReadingEpisode 380 – Learning to Sit with Disappointment
overcoming spouse self-criticism

Episode 379 – I Guess I’m a Terrible Spouse….

  • Post published:July 25, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

You finally build up the courage to say something vulnerable, maybe about feeling disconnected, wanting more intimacy, or missing the spark in your relationship. And then, instead of a conversation,…

Continue ReadingEpisode 379 – I Guess I’m a Terrible Spouse….
maintenance sex in marriage

Episode 378 – Maintenance Sex

  • Post published:July 18, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

What comes to mind when you hear the phrase “maintenance sex”? For a lot of people, it feels unromantic - maybe even a little cringy. It doesn’t sound poetic or…

Continue ReadingEpisode 378 – Maintenance Sex
good enough intimacy

Episode 377 – Good Enough Sex

  • Post published:July 11, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “We should have sex… but I’m just not feeling it” - only to go through the motions and walk away feeling disconnected? You’re not…

Continue ReadingEpisode 377 – Good Enough Sex
enneagram sexual patterns

Episode 376 – The Enneagram And Sex

  • Post published:July 4, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

Why do you react the way you do in sexual situations, whether it’s craving something specific, avoiding certain dynamics, or feeling stuck in the same patterns? And why does your…

Continue ReadingEpisode 376 – The Enneagram And Sex
healthy intimacy in Christian marriage, emotional maturity in relationships, sexual discipline in marriage,

Episode 375 – Sexual Discipline

  • Post published:June 27, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

What if sexual discipline isn’t about restriction, but about freedom? In this episode, I’m exploring a concept that doesn’t get much airtime in Christian marriage spaces: sexual discipline within marriage.…

Continue ReadingEpisode 375 – Sexual Discipline
Sexual disconnect in marriage

Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

Continue ReadingEpisode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex
stuck in marriage

Episode 373 – When You Feel Stuck in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:June 13, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

In this episode, we’re diving into something that can quietly wear down even the strongest relationships: the Two-Choice Dilemma, a concept from Dr. David Schnarch. It’s what happens when you…

Continue ReadingEpisode 373 – When You Feel Stuck in Your Sexual Relationship
emotional safety in marriage

Episode 372 – Better Sex Isn’t About Technique

  • Post published:June 6, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They…

Continue ReadingEpisode 372 – Better Sex Isn’t About Technique
sexual novelty in marriage

Episode 371 – Why Do They Want To Try That?

  • Post published:May 30, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

When your spouse suggests trying something new sexually, like a different position, a toy, or even roleplay, it can catch you off guard. Maybe your first thought is, “Where did…

Continue ReadingEpisode 371 – Why Do They Want To Try That?
feeling not enough in marriage

Episode 370 – When It Feels Like It’s Never Enough

  • Post published:May 23, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

Have you ever felt like no matter how much you grow or how open you are to trying new things, it still doesn’t feel like enough for your partner? Maybe…

Continue ReadingEpisode 370 – When It Feels Like It’s Never Enough
  • Go to the previous page
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • 6
  • 7
  • 8
  • …
  • 36
  • Go to the next page

Recent Posts

  • Episode 126 – Sexual Communication – Part 2
    Episode 126 – Sexual Communication – Part 2
    September 18, 2020/
    0 Comments
  • Episode 268 – Affection Without Expectation
    Episode 268 – Affection Without Expectation
    June 9, 2023/
    2 Comments
  • Episode 320 – Using Sex As A Bandaid
    Episode 320 – Using Sex As A Bandaid
    June 7, 2024/
    0 Comments

    Search

    Contact Me   Terms And Conditions   Privacy Policy

    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her

    Have you ever wondered why intimacy can feel so difficult, even when you’ve done everything “right”? In this episode, I explore how the messages many women received growing up can quietly shape their relationship with their bodies, their desire, and their marriages long after the wedding day. Through the stories of Rosalie and Hazel, we look at how different experiences can lead to similar struggles and why those patterns aren’t a sign that you’re broken. If you’re looking for thoughtful Christian intimacy coaching that blends faith, compassion, and practical understanding, this conversation will help you see yourself and your marriage with fresh eyes. This is episode 2 in a series. Listen to episode 1 here.

    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
    July 10, 2026
    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
    June 26, 2026
    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
    June 19, 2026
    Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
    June 12, 2026
    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
    June 5, 2026
    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
    May 29, 2026
    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
    May 22, 2026
    Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
    May 15, 2026
    Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide
    May 8, 2026
    Search Results placeholder

    Tags

    abuse Actions Anxiety arousal beginnings beliefs Body Coaching Communication Confidence Connection consent consumption vs connection control Desire Divorce Emotions Fantasy Fear Feelings Goals Grief Hormones interview intimacy love Marriage mental health orgasm parenting podcast Pornography Relationship Relationships resentment sealed Sex sex life sexual conditioning Sexuality sleep Thoughts Thoughtwork Touch young adult
    • Legal
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms and Conditions of Use
    • Returns & Refunds
    Copyright 2026 - Amanda Louder Coaching - All Rights Reserved

    Amanda Louder is not a mental health professional. She does not diagnose, treat, or provide therapy. Coaching services are for education, tools, and empowerment. Please seek a qualified mental health profession for any mental health conditions.
    By continuing to browse this site, you agree to our use of cookies.

    Send me the 5 Gears of Touch Worksheet!