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how to overcome sexual certainty in marriage

Episode 385 – The Dangerous Illusion of Sexual Certainty

  • Post published:September 5, 2025
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In this episode, we explore why sexual certainty, which is the belief that you already know exactly how intimacy should look, might actually be blocking passion and connection in your…

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safety vs security in marriage

Episode 384 – The Difference Between Safety and Security in the Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:August 29, 2025
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In this episode, we’re unpacking a powerful insight that could completely transform the way you experience intimacy in your marriage. It’s all about the surprising difference between safety and security…

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Episode 383 – Learning to Love Your Body: A Conversation with Boudoir Photographer Hope Orr

  • Post published:August 22, 2025
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In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful idea I recently heard on the Sex Therapy 101 podcast - a conversation between Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and my friend Dr.…

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Difference between sex drive and sexual desire

Episode 382 – The Difference Between Sex Drive and Sexual Desire

  • Post published:August 15, 2025
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In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful idea I recently heard on the Sex Therapy 101 podcast - a conversation between Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and my friend Dr.…

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marriage myths debunked

Episode 381 – Bad Marriage Advice

  • Post published:August 8, 2025
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Is the marriage advice you’ve heard actually helping or quietly hurting your relationship? In this episode, Amanda interviews marriage coach and author Monica Tanner about her new book Bad Marriage…

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marriage myths debunked

Episode 380 – Learning to Sit with Disappointment

  • Post published:August 1, 2025
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What if the key to deeper intimacy was learning how to handle disappointment? In this episode, we’re talking about the one feeling most of us spend our lives avoiding, disappointment,…

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overcoming spouse self-criticism

Episode 379 – I Guess I’m a Terrible Spouse….

  • Post published:July 25, 2025
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You finally build up the courage to say something vulnerable, maybe about feeling disconnected, wanting more intimacy, or missing the spark in your relationship. And then, instead of a conversation,…

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maintenance sex in marriage

Episode 378 – Maintenance Sex

  • Post published:July 18, 2025
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What comes to mind when you hear the phrase “maintenance sex”? For a lot of people, it feels unromantic - maybe even a little cringy. It doesn’t sound poetic or…

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Episode 377 – Good Enough Sex

  • Post published:July 11, 2025
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Have you ever found yourself thinking, “We should have sex… but I’m just not feeling it” - only to go through the motions and walk away feeling disconnected? You’re not…

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enneagram sexual patterns

Episode 376 – The Enneagram And Sex

  • Post published:July 4, 2025
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Why do you react the way you do in sexual situations, whether it’s craving something specific, avoiding certain dynamics, or feeling stuck in the same patterns? And why does your…

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healthy intimacy in Christian marriage, emotional maturity in relationships, sexual discipline in marriage,

Episode 375 – Sexual Discipline

  • Post published:June 27, 2025
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What if sexual discipline isn’t about restriction, but about freedom? In this episode, I’m exploring a concept that doesn’t get much airtime in Christian marriage spaces: sexual discipline within marriage.…

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Sexual disconnect in marriage

Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025
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You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda

    Have you ever stopped yourself from feeling close to your spouse because you were worried about where it might lead? In this episode, I explore why arousal, or what the ancient Greeks called Eros, is about so much more than sex. I talk about how learning to experience desire without pressure or expectation can create deeper trust, stronger emotional connection, and a more vibrant marriage. If you’ve ever felt like affection automatically comes with an agenda, this episode will help you discover how allowing Eros to simply exist can transform both your relationship and your intimate connection.

    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
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