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initiating sex in marriage

Episode 369 – Are You Initiating Too Much?

  • Post published:May 16, 2025
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Are you the one who always initiates sex in your relationship, and you’re starting to feel burnt out by it? In this episode, we explore a common dynamic I see…

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Episode 368 – Are You Prioritizing “Your” Kind of Sex Over Connection?

  • Post published:May 9, 2025
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Do you ever feel frustrated when your spouse doesn’t want sex the same way, or as often, as you do? In this episode, we explore how rigid expectations around sex…

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Episode 367 – Making Sex Cleanup Simple & Stress-Free

  • Post published:May 2, 2025
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Ever found yourself pulled out of a beautiful, intimate moment by the thought, “Ugh, now I have to clean up”? You’re definitely not alone. For many women, post-sex cleanup can…

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Episode 366 – The Law of Intimacy

  • Post published:April 25, 2025
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What if the covenants we make in the Temple are more than just promises—what if they’re a roadmap to deeper connection and intimacy? In this episode, we’re diving into the…

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Episode 365 – Who Controls The Sex In Your Marriage?

  • Post published:April 18, 2025
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Does sex in your marriage ever feel like a power struggle? You're not alone. Whether you're the partner who wants sex more often or the one who wants it less,…

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Episode 364 – Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy for Men

  • Post published:April 11, 2025
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Katelyn Peach, Doctor of Physical Therapy, is back for this episode where we talk about pelvic floor physical therapy for men. One of the biggest misconceptions that Katelyn sees in…

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Episode 363 – Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy for Women

  • Post published:April 4, 2025
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In this episode, Katelyn Peach, who is a Doctor of Physical Therapy, is going to be speaking with us about pelvic floor physical therapy for women. She treats patients with…

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Episode 362 – Mutuality in the Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:March 28, 2025
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Sex in marriage can sometimes feel imbalanced—one person initiates while the other holds the power to say yes or no, or one partner’s needs take priority over the other’s. But…

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Episode 361 – Sexual Transmutation

  • Post published:March 21, 2025
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We often think of sexual energy as just desire, attraction, or physical connection—but what if it’s so much more? What if this energy could fuel your creativity, ambition, personal growth,…

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Episode 360 – Your Sexual Locus of Control

  • Post published:March 14, 2025
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I often hear from my clients the phrase, “If only…” If only my spouse would want more sex, then I could stop feeling so frustrated. If only my spouse would…

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Episode 359 – Why “Do You Love Me” Is the Wrong Question

  • Post published:March 7, 2025
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We’ve all said it at one time or another - “Do you love me?” While it seems like an innocent question, what I’ve found from working with countless couples is…

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Episode 358 – Overcoming Good Boy Syndrome

  • Post published:February 28, 2025
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Have you ever wondered if men experience the same pressures to be 'good' that women do? Last week, we uncovered the hidden struggles of Good Girl Syndrome—but what about the…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 417 – Better Foreplay: What Actually Works (And What Doesn’t)

    In this episode, I talk about how most of us have misunderstood foreplay and why it’s not just something that happens right before sex. I share how true connection and desire are built throughout the entire day, not just in a rushed few minutes, and walk through five different types of foreplay that most couples are completely overlooking. We’ll also get into why slowing down actually creates more passion, how to read your partner instead of following a script, and what it really means to pursue each other. I dive into the importance of balancing giving and receiving, and how small shifts can completely change the way intimacy feels in your marriage. This isn’t about doing more, it’s about creating deeper connection, desire, and meaning in your relationship.

    Episode 417 – Better Foreplay: What Actually Works (And What Doesn’t)
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    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
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    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
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