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Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide

  • Post published:May 8, 2026
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What if “protect and provide” isn’t outdated, but just misunderstood? In this episode, I will break down how these ideas have quietly shaped marriages and why the old definitions may…

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Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole

  • Post published:May 1, 2026
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What if the tension you feel around sex isn’t about your relationship at all, but about being divided within yourself? In this episode, I will unpack what sexual integrity really…

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Episode  418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve

  • Post published:April 24, 2026
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What if the very thing you’re doing to improve your sex life is actually making it worse? In this episode, I’m breaking down the “fix-it” mentality so many men bring…

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Episode 417 – Better Foreplay: What Actually Works (And What Doesn’t)

  • Post published:April 17, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about how most of us have misunderstood foreplay and why it’s not just something that happens right before sex. I share how true connection and…

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Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter

  • Post published:April 10, 2026
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Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Did I marry the right person?” I want to show you why that question is actually leading you in the wrong direction and what…

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Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex

  • Post published:April 3, 2026
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If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh…

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Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

  • Post published:March 27, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in…

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Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy

  • Post published:March 20, 2026
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What if intimacy in your marriage didn’t actually depend on your spouse showing up first? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful shift that changes how we think about emotional…

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Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire

  • Post published:March 13, 2026
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Many women assume their lack of desire means something is wrong with them, but in this episode, I am going to explain that the real issue is often passive sexuality.…

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Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?

  • Post published:March 6, 2026
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I want to talk about why sex can feel draining instead of connecting, even when it’s happening regularly, and how that disconnect quietly impacts a marriage. What does nourishing sex…

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Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

  • Post published:February 27, 2026
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When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based…

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Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

  • Post published:February 20, 2026
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Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality

    In this final episode of my five-part series, I challenge the idea that our sexuality is the “natural man” and offer a new framework for understanding what King Benjamin was really teaching in Mosiah 3:19. Together, we’ll explore how ego, not desire, is often what keeps us disconnected from God and from our spouse, and how awareness, agency, and alignment can transform our relationships. If you’ve been following this series, this episode brings everything together into a hopeful path forward. If you’re just joining us, I encourage you to go back and listen to the first four episodes to fully understand the journey and how these ideas build on one another. You can find those first four episodes here: 428, 429, 430, 431.

    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
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    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
    July 24, 2026
    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
    July 17, 2026
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    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
    June 26, 2026
    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
    June 19, 2026
    Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
    June 12, 2026
    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
    June 5, 2026
    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
    May 29, 2026
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