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Episode 265 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 1

  • Post published:May 19, 2023
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This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot…

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Episode 264 – Igniting Passion In Your Sex Life

  • Post published:May 12, 2023
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Have you noticed that the passion in your sex life has disappeared? It’s time to ignite it again, don’t you think? I was recently on Ashlee Sorenson’s podcast called A…

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Episode 263 – How Do You Define Sex?

  • Post published:May 5, 2023
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Our definition of sex can really affect how much sex we’re getting. So, how do you define sex? Is sex just penetration and orgasm? Or are there other activities that…

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Episode 262 – Sleep Divorce

  • Post published:April 28, 2023
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Have you heard about sleep divorce? "Sleep divorce" is a situation where couples sleep separately on a regular basis to improve their sleep quality due to issues like snoring, different…

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Episode 261 – Is Jealousy Good or Bad for a Marriage?

  • Post published:April 21, 2023
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Have you ever been jealous in your relationship? Around 77% of people report feeling at least an occasional jealousy in their relationships. In this episode, we’re talking about jealousy and…

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Episode 260 – The Sexual Conditioning of Christian Men

  • Post published:April 14, 2023
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Through my own experience and coaching women for five years, I have come to know what the sexual conditioning of women is in our Christian faith, and how to help…

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Episode 259 – How Body Image Affects Your Partner an Interview with Amber A Price

  • Post published:April 7, 2023
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How does your body image affect your partner? That's what my guest Amber Price and I are talking about in this episode. Even though body image issues is something you…

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Episode 258 – The Top Reasons For Low Desire in Women

  • Post published:March 31, 2023
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In this episode, we talk about the top 4 reasons for low desire in women that I see in my clients. I break down why women have low desire and…

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Episode 257 – How Style Helps Your Confidence in the Bedroom – An Interview with Sheri Brasier

  • Post published:March 24, 2023
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In this episode, I’m talking to Sheri Brasier about how to gain more confidence in the bedroom. Sheri is a life and style coach which means that she empowers women…

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Episode 256 – How to Add Role-Play Into Your Sexual Repertoire

  • Post published:March 17, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Katie Runyan of Faithful Fling, a subscription role-playing website. We talk about how to easily add role-play into our marriages. This is such a…

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Episode 255 – Taking Things To The Next Level ||Embracing You! Teaser||

  • Post published:March 10, 2023
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Rather than dwelling on the questions your brain is offering to you, answer them. Thoughtfully think about them and answer them.  You have the answers already inside of you. I’m…

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Episode 254 – How Can I Get My Wife to Develop Her Sexual-Self?

  • Post published:March 3, 2023
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How do I get my wife to develop her sexual self? That is probably one of the most common questions I get from husbands. This question makes the assumption that…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

    Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

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    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
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    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
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    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
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    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
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    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
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    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
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    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
    Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire
    December 19, 2025
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