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Episode 179 – It Takes Too Long To Orgasm!

  • Post published:September 24, 2021
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Does your orgasm take too long? This is a complaint I hear all of the time from my clients. We as women are culturally trained that our needs are secondary…

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Episode 178 – It’s Okay That You Don’t Like Sex

  • Post published:September 17, 2021
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Did the title of this podcast surprise you? It surprises a lot of my clients too. But it actually makes a lot of sense that you don’t like sex. In…

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Episode 177 – Why Pleasure Matters

  • Post published:September 10, 2021
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I want to ask you a question. Are you afraid of pleasure? Maybe you're thinking, “Of course not! I find pleasure in my family or my job.”  But the pleasure…

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Episode 176 – Pressure to Perform

  • Post published:September 3, 2021
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In this episode, we’re talking about pressure. Both the pressure we put on ourselves and the pressure we feel from our spouses. And in reality, how the internal and external…

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Episode 175 – The Language of Love and Sex

  • Post published:August 27, 2021
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In this episode, let’s talk about words. What are words? They are just letters and syllables that we have been taught are good or bad. But why are they good…

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Episode 174 – How I Fixed My Sexual Relationship: An Interview with Mike Peterson

  • Post published:August 20, 2021
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In this episode, I speak with Mike Peterson about his experiences with fixing his sexual relationship in his marriage. I am so excited to share with you the male perspective…

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Episode 173 – My Experience with Boudoir Photography

  • Post published:August 13, 2021
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In this episode, I am going to get a little vulnerable with you and talk about my experience with boudoir photography. I, like you, had the wrong idea about what…

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Episode 172 – Myths and Truths of Men’s Sexuality

  • Post published:August 6, 2021
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In American and Conservative Christian culture, we are often taught things about men’s sexuality that are myths. Actually, they are really outright lies. In this episode, we go through 3…

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Episode 171 – Equality in Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

  • Post published:July 30, 2021
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about equality in marriage. This is something that is ingrained in our culture but can be really detrimental to our marriages.…

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Episode 170 – Sexual Repression and the Parable of The Talents

  • Post published:July 23, 2021
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Have you buried your sexual desire? How do you know if you have? In our conservative Christian culture, we are often taught that sex is bad or unpleasant, that thinking…

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Episode 169 – Initiating Ideas and Styles

  • Post published:July 16, 2021
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Is your husband always initiating sex? In a recent study, that’s what they found, that often men are the ones initiating. But why aren’t you initiating sex? Today we are…

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Episode 168 – Consent within Marriage

  • Post published:July 9, 2021
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Consent is truly a buzzword right now. In this episode, we take a look at what consent truly means, in your sex life and beyond, and how we can be…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 384 – The Difference Between Safety and Security in the Sexual Relationship

    In this episode, we’re unpacking a powerful insight that could completely transform the way you experience intimacy in your marriage. It’s all about the surprising difference between safety and security in your sexual relationship and why understanding it might be the missing piece to reigniting the passion you’ve been longing for. Most people think they’re the same thing, but once you see the distinction, it can change everything about the way you connect with your spouse.

     

    Sources: Safety vs. Security concept credit: Whitni Miller (BDEmoves on Instagram) on “You Are Not Broken” podcast with Dr. Kelly Casperson Episode: “325. Sex, Safety and Embodied Intimacy” (July 5, 2025) Link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-are-not-broken/id1495710329?i=1000715944578&r=495

    “Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence” by Esther Perel

     

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