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Episode 337 – Signs That Someone is Bad in Bed

  • Post published:October 4, 2024
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Are you bad in bed? Is your spouse? Being “bad in bed” isn’t a thing that should cause shame or anger but it is something that needs to be looked…

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Episode 336 – When Erections Fade – Understanding, Supporting, and Thriving Together

  • Post published:September 27, 2024
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Even though this topic can feel a little awkward, frustrating, and even scary, I think it’s important to talk about because all couples will probably have this happen from time…

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Episode 335 – The Benefits of Sleeping Nude

  • Post published:September 20, 2024
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Is it time to ditch your pajamas? This topic may make you blush, but let’s talk about why we might want to think about sleeping nude or partially nude. From…

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Episode 334 – What to do with Unanswered Arousal

  • Post published:September 13, 2024
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Let’s be honest, most of us were not taught what to do when our arousal was unanswered. So, let’s talk about it. What happens when we’re turned on, but our…

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Read more about the article Episode 333 – Breaking Free of Sexual Archetypes

Episode 333 – Breaking Free of Sexual Archetypes

  • Post published:September 6, 2024
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What is an archetype? In very simple terms, it’s a “should”. As the man, I “should” be the primary breadwinner. As the woman, I “should” cater to my husband’s sexual…

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Episode 332 – What Is Your Touch Communicating

  • Post published:August 30, 2024
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I often see people wanting to uplevel their sex lives, but ignoring non-sexual touch completely. But, non-sexual physical intimacy is just as important, if not more important than sexual intimacy.…

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Episode 331 – Are Your Teens Interrupting Your Sex Life?

  • Post published:August 23, 2024
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I recently got a DM from a listener asking me how to navigate her sexual relationship with teens in the house. We often think that little kids make it harder…

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Episode 330 – Consumption vs Connection

  • Post published:August 16, 2024
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I recently had the opportunity to be a guest on the Therapy Brothers Podcast. I talked with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection. I really enjoyed…

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Episode 329 – A Different Way to Approach Sex

  • Post published:August 9, 2024
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What if I told you that the way you have been thinking about sex is wrong? What if that’s the reason you don’t have the sex life that you thought…

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Episode 328 – Fantasy vs Desire

  • Post published:August 2, 2024
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I’ve noticed a lot of people expressing problems with their spouse’s fantasies. They don’t understand certain fantasies, and they are afraid that their spouse wants to turn them into reality.…

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Episode 327 – Traits of Healthy Couples

  • Post published:July 26, 2024
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Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Many of us don’t because our parents didn’t know what a healthy couple looked like either. But we can change that…

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Episode 326 – Mining for Conflict to Increase Intimacy

  • Post published:July 19, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about something that may make you feel a little uncomfortable - mining for conflict. It is absolutely crucial for the health and intimacy…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

    Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

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    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
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    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
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    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
    January 9, 2026
    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
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    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
    Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire
    December 19, 2025
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