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Episode 284 – When Your Spouse Has Had Other Sexual Partners

  • Post published:September 29, 2023
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I often get asked by my clients what they can do if their spouse has had other sexual partners. While the reason behind this can vary, it often leaves the…

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Episode 283 – Maintaining a Great Sex Life While You Are Apart

  • Post published:September 22, 2023
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You’ve heard the old adage, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” right? While that can be true, being apart from your spouse can really affect your intimacy. So in this…

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Episode 282 – Sexual Wellness – An Interview with Holly Henry

  • Post published:September 15, 2023
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Our overall wellness as women is so important for not just our lives, but also our sexual being. So today I’m talking with Holly Henry all about sexual wellness. She…

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Weight Loss for LDS Moms Podcast

  • Post published:September 12, 2023
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If your post baby bod makes you cringe at the thought of intimacy. This episode is for you! I spoke with Corey Pickett of Weight Loss for LDS Moms about…

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Episode 281 – The Importance of Physical Intimacy in Marriage

  • Post published:September 8, 2023
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When I say “physical intimacy in marriage”, what does that bring up? Usually it’s sex. But intimacy is so much more than just sex. It’s eye contact and hand holding.…

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Episode 280 – How To Keep The Romance Alive in Marriage

  • Post published:September 1, 2023
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I often get asked how to keep the flames of romance burning after you’ve been married a long time. So, that’s what we’re going to talk about today. How do…

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The Courageous and Confident Mom Podcast

  • Post published:August 25, 2023
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Are you one of those women who, when the topic of sex comes up, can't help but cringe a little? Do you feel like it's more of a burden than…

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Episode 279 – The Mind-Body Connection

  • Post published:August 25, 2023
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Your brain is your biggest sex organ. Have you noticed what you’re thinking about sex? In this episode, we’re going to talk about the mind-body connection when it comes to…

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Episode 278 – Teaching Your Kids About Sex, Shame Free

  • Post published:August 18, 2023
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In Come Follow Me this coming week, we read about Paul’s sexual purity letter to the Corinthians. Because of this, I think it’s a great time to not only talk…

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Episode 277 – The Importance of Foreplay

  • Post published:August 11, 2023
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In the last episode, we spoke about erogenous zones. But if you are focusing solely on these areas without any warm-up or creating the right context for sex, you are…

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Episode 276 – Erogenous Zones

  • Post published:August 4, 2023
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You may remember when Monica taught Chandler about erogenous zones on the TV show friends. (If you don’t remember this iconic scene, the link is below) Chandler was surprised to…

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Episode 275 – Sexual Validation & Rejection

  • Post published:July 28, 2023
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Wanting sex so you can feel closer to your spouse or because you want to connect with them is great. But sometimes, we start to seek validation through sex. When…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

    In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories of couples who get stuck in this cycle and explain why it happens, especially when a husband’s identity is tied so closely to being “the good guy.” You’ll hear how this dynamic leaves wives feeling unseen and husbands frustrated, even though neither partner wants that outcome. Most importantly, I’ll talk about what both husbands and wives can do to break free from this pattern and build deeper connection and intimacy. Whether you see yourself in these stories or simply want a stronger marriage, this episode has something for you.

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