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Episode 189 – Faking Orgasms

  • Post published:December 3, 2021
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We all fake orgasms every once in a while, right? Studies show that 80% of women have faked an orgasm one time in their relationship. Why? In this episode, I…

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Episode 188 – Emotional Connection vs Physical Connection

  • Post published:November 26, 2021
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I often hear the same things from my clients. The women say, “I have to feel an emotional connection in order to want the physical connection.” And the men say,…

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Episode 187 – Sexual Energy

  • Post published:November 19, 2021
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We have all seen the Yin and Yang symbol and we may think we know what it means. But in this episode, let’s talk about what the different energies mean…

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Episode 186 – The Hard Part of Building True Intimacy

  • Post published:November 12, 2021
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I have a lot of men come to me wanting to be coached. And while I feel for them, I have dedicated my life to helping women with their sexuality.…

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Episode 185 – What Turns Women Off

  • Post published:November 5, 2021
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So often the men in our lives focus on what turns us women on. (Maybe we women do that a bit too!) But maybe they are consciously, or unconsciously, doing…

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Episode 184 – What Turns Women On

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In doing research for this episode, I found a lot of information that is just plain wrong! No wonder men are confused about what  women want! So let’s talk about…

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The Doctor’s Wife Podcast

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I was interviewed by Sara Payne with The Doctor's Wife Podcast. We talk openly, honestly, and vulnerably about embracing your sexuality. Every woman should listen to this episode and share it…

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Episode 183 – Creating Sexual Context

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It’s all about context. We all want to feel emotionally connected to our spouse but are we sabotaging that with what we’re thinking about and focusing on? When you’re working…

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The Positively You Podcast

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I was interviewed by Jessie Larson with The Positively You Podcast. We chatted about how when you embrace your sexuality, EVERYTHING gets better and you can show up in all…

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Episode 182 – Sexual Brakes & Accelerators

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Have you ever heard the phrase that a woman is like a race car? It isn’t that far from the truth. Our bodies were created with systems. And those systems…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

    In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories of couples who get stuck in this cycle and explain why it happens, especially when a husband’s identity is tied so closely to being “the good guy.” You’ll hear how this dynamic leaves wives feeling unseen and husbands frustrated, even though neither partner wants that outcome. Most importantly, I’ll talk about what both husbands and wives can do to break free from this pattern and build deeper connection and intimacy. Whether you see yourself in these stories or simply want a stronger marriage, this episode has something for you.

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