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Episode 194 – Sexual Role-Play

  • Post published:January 7, 2022
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Let's talk about role playing! It can bring a lot of excitement, fun, fantasy, and of course some intimidation and awkwardness, especially in the beginning. We'll talk about why you…

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Episode 193 – The Forbidden Fruit Effect

  • Post published:December 31, 2021
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Have you ever noticed that when you’re told not to do something, that’s all you want to do? This is called the Forbidden Fruit Effect. We are all born with…

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December 2021

  • Post published:December 27, 2021
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Episode 192 – All About Waxing – An Interview with Zoey Jolley

  • Post published:December 24, 2021
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I get so many questions from my clients about waxing. So, this week, we’re speaking with Zoey Jolley all about it. Zoey is a licensed esthetician and she is going…

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Episode 191 – Learning To Trust

  • Post published:December 17, 2021
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Do you trust others? Your spouse? Your friends? Your co-workers? Your children? If trusting others is hard for you, maybe you don't trust yourself. Trusting yourself is the first step…

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Episode 190 – Creating the Space for Desire

  • Post published:December 10, 2021
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Do you desire sex? If you said no, why is that? Is it because you have lost your desire completely or is it because you aren’t giving yourself enough space…

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Episode 189 – Faking Orgasms

  • Post published:December 3, 2021
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We all fake orgasms every once in a while, right? Studies show that 80% of women have faked an orgasm one time in their relationship. Why? In this episode, I…

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November 2021

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Episode 188 – Emotional Connection vs Physical Connection

  • Post published:November 26, 2021
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I often hear the same things from my clients. The women say, “I have to feel an emotional connection in order to want the physical connection.” And the men say,…

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Episode 187 – Sexual Energy

  • Post published:November 19, 2021
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We have all seen the Yin and Yang symbol and we may think we know what it means. But in this episode, let’s talk about what the different energies mean…

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Episode 186 – The Hard Part of Building True Intimacy

  • Post published:November 12, 2021
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I have a lot of men come to me wanting to be coached. And while I feel for them, I have dedicated my life to helping women with their sexuality.…

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Episode 185 – What Turns Women Off

  • Post published:November 5, 2021
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So often the men in our lives focus on what turns us women on. (Maybe we women do that a bit too!) But maybe they are consciously, or unconsciously, doing…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t want, while her husband still feels unsatisfied. I’ll explain why orgasms aren’t the same thing as satisfaction, and how duty sex can actually block the connection both partners are craving. I’ll unpack how this pattern creates deep resentment for her, confusion for him, and eventually a crisis point that forces the relationship to change. I’ll also share what real repair can look like, how couples can move from obligation to genuine desire, and why quality and connection matter far more than frequency. This episode will be especially helpful for anyone who feels stuck in a painful sexual stalemate and wants clarity on what’s really going wrong and what healing could look like.

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