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Episode 117 – Why We Don’t Talk About Sex

  • Post published:July 17, 2020
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We know we don’t. . . we aren’t sure why. . . but we just don’t.  So many of us do not feel comfortable talking about sex - even to…

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Painful Sex

Episode 116 – Painful Sex

  • Post published:July 10, 2020
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This week I had the privilege of interviewing Valerie Schwalbe from Well Being Physical Therapy in Murray, Utah, specializing in the pelvic floor.  If you have pain during sex, pelvic pain,…

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Fantasy

Episode 115 – Fantasy

  • Post published:July 3, 2020
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 Let’s talk about fantasy. When it comes to sex, what is an appropriate fantasy and what is not? What benefits the marriage and what destroys it? Today I will teach…

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Relationship Anxiety

Relationship Anxiety Podcast

  • Post published:July 2, 2020
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I was interview by fellow life-coach McKell Kristen on her podcast Relationship Anxiety all about anxiety and sex.  You can learn more about McKell and the work she does here.…

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3 Keys to Great Sex

Episode 114 – 3 Keys to Great Sex

  • Post published:June 26, 2020
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Every magazine seems to have different tips for a great sex life.  But Hollywood doesn’t have the corner market on YOUR sex life. It’s time to look inside ourselves and…

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Entitled to Pleasure

Episode 113 – Entitled to Pleasure

  • Post published:June 19, 2020
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You might be aroused and not even know it.

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The Limitless Female Podcast

  • Post published:June 16, 2020
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  I was interviewed by fellow coach Emylee McIntyre for the Limitless Female Podcast.  We discussed sex when you have depression and how to create desire.  Listen here.

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Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

Episode 112 – Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

  • Post published:June 12, 2020
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Get ready. . .because the title of today’s podcast may already have you squirming.  But understanding and getting help with anal sex is only one topic I will be discussing. …

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Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

  • Post published:June 5, 2020
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Calm the anxieties before and in the bedroom!

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Read more about the article Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

  • Post published:May 29, 2020
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Is your body a burden to you? Or is it a blessing?

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Read more about the article Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

  • Post published:May 22, 2020
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What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

  • Post published:May 15, 2020
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What is anxiety?  What does it look like?  How is it affecting your life - your partners life? In Podcast #108 I will take a look at anxiety and the…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

    In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is wired to see sexual vulnerability as a threat, how past experiences and conditioning shape the stories you believe, and why those stories feel so true even when they aren’t. We look at the specific lies that tend to show up for both higher-desire and lower-desire partners, and how those patterns keep couples stuck in fear, shame, and disconnection. I also share practical ways to recognize when your brain is lying, how to question those thoughts without judging yourself, and how curiosity can open the door to real intimacy again. If sex feels complicated, heavy, or confusing in your marriage, this episode will help you understand what’s actually happening and how to move forward with more clarity and compassion.

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