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Libido

Episode 123 – Increasing Your Libido

  • Post published:August 28, 2020
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Are you convinced your libido is shot? Do you feel like you have nothing left to give at the end of the day?  Stress, illness, medication, hormones or sheer exhaustion…

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Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2020
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One topic I hear often from my clients is that their kids are ruining their sex life.  They are so exhuasted from being a mom, that sex is the last…

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Episode 121 – Why You’re Not Having Orgasms

  • Post published:August 14, 2020
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One of my favorite things I get to do is help women discover how they orgasm so they can experience greater pleasure in their sexual encounters and build a better…

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Episode 120 – He Just Wants Sex

  • Post published:August 7, 2020
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Your brain probably tells you your husband just wants sex - and that it has very little to do with you.  What if you were wrong?  What if it actually…

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Inventive Journey Podcast

  • Post published:August 6, 2020
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  I was interviewed by Devin Miller for the Inventive Journey podcast.  We discussed keeping your marriage as a priority while you start a business.  Listen here.

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Auditory Arousal - Laura M Brotherson

Episode 119 – How ‘Auditory Arousal’ Can Heat Up Your Lovemaking

  • Post published:July 31, 2020
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An Interview the LDS Sex Therapist Laura M Brotherson

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Honesty

Episode 118 – Honesty in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:July 24, 2020
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Most of us consider ourselves to be honest people, to have integrity.   It may surprise you that this isn’t always the case.  Can you speak truthfully to your partner…

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Episode 117 – Why We Don’t Talk About Sex

  • Post published:July 17, 2020
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We know we don’t. . . we aren’t sure why. . . but we just don’t.  So many of us do not feel comfortable talking about sex - even to…

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Painful Sex

Episode 116 – Painful Sex

  • Post published:July 10, 2020
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This week I had the privilege of interviewing Valerie Schwalbe from Well Being Physical Therapy in Murray, Utah, specializing in the pelvic floor.  If you have pain during sex, pelvic pain,…

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Episode 115 – Fantasy

  • Post published:July 3, 2020
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 Let’s talk about fantasy. When it comes to sex, what is an appropriate fantasy and what is not? What benefits the marriage and what destroys it? Today I will teach…

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Relationship Anxiety

Relationship Anxiety Podcast

  • Post published:July 2, 2020
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I was interview by fellow life-coach McKell Kristen on her podcast Relationship Anxiety all about anxiety and sex.  You can learn more about McKell and the work she does here.…

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3 Keys to Great Sex

Episode 114 – 3 Keys to Great Sex

  • Post published:June 26, 2020
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Every magazine seems to have different tips for a great sex life.  But Hollywood doesn’t have the corner market on YOUR sex life. It’s time to look inside ourselves and…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)

    In this episode of Sex for Saints, I walk through the six stages of marriage and explain why so many couples feel stuck, disconnected, or ready to give up around stage three. I break down what each stage looks like in real life, from the honeymoon phase to frustration, growth, true love, and legacy, using real client stories to show what’s actually happening beneath the conflict. We talk about why stage three feels like failure, how emotional triggers and unmet needs collide there, and why this stage is not a sign you married the wrong person but an invitation to learn new relationship skills. I also explain how emotional regulation, boundary setting, and clean communication move couples into deeper intimacy, passion, and long-term connection. If your marriage feels hard right now, this episode will help you understand where you are and what it takes to move forward together instead of drifting apart.

    Source: The six stages framework referenced in this episode comes from mental.aspect on Instagram.

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    Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire
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    Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage
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