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Honesty

Episode 118 – Honesty in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:July 24, 2020
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Most of us consider ourselves to be honest people, to have integrity.   It may surprise you that this isn’t always the case.  Can you speak truthfully to your partner…

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talk about sex

Episode 117 – Why We Don’t Talk About Sex

  • Post published:July 17, 2020
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We know we don’t. . . we aren’t sure why. . . but we just don’t.  So many of us do not feel comfortable talking about sex - even to…

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Painful Sex

Episode 116 – Painful Sex

  • Post published:July 10, 2020
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This week I had the privilege of interviewing Valerie Schwalbe from Well Being Physical Therapy in Murray, Utah, specializing in the pelvic floor.  If you have pain during sex, pelvic pain,…

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Fantasy

Episode 115 – Fantasy

  • Post published:July 3, 2020
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 Let’s talk about fantasy. When it comes to sex, what is an appropriate fantasy and what is not? What benefits the marriage and what destroys it? Today I will teach…

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Relationship Anxiety

Relationship Anxiety Podcast

  • Post published:July 2, 2020
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I was interview by fellow life-coach McKell Kristen on her podcast Relationship Anxiety all about anxiety and sex.  You can learn more about McKell and the work she does here.…

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3 Keys to Great Sex

Episode 114 – 3 Keys to Great Sex

  • Post published:June 26, 2020
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Every magazine seems to have different tips for a great sex life.  But Hollywood doesn’t have the corner market on YOUR sex life. It’s time to look inside ourselves and…

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Entitled to Pleasure

Episode 113 – Entitled to Pleasure

  • Post published:June 19, 2020
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You might be aroused and not even know it.

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The Limitless Female Podcast

  • Post published:June 16, 2020
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  I was interviewed by fellow coach Emylee McIntyre for the Limitless Female Podcast.  We discussed sex when you have depression and how to create desire.  Listen here.

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Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

Episode 112 – Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

  • Post published:June 12, 2020
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Get ready. . .because the title of today’s podcast may already have you squirming.  But understanding and getting help with anal sex is only one topic I will be discussing. …

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Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

  • Post published:June 5, 2020
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Calm the anxieties before and in the bedroom!

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Read more about the article Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

  • Post published:May 29, 2020
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Is your body a burden to you? Or is it a blessing?

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Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

  • Post published:May 22, 2020
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What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

    Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

    Here are the questions for this week’s episode.

    Here is the link to the book I talk about, Fully Alive.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
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    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
    July 24, 2026
    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
    July 17, 2026
    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
    July 10, 2026
    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
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