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Read more about the article Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:February 7, 2020
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6 Principles of Healthy Sexuality and what a healthy relationship looks like.

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Read more about the article Episode 93 – Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew

Episode 93 – Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew

  • Post published:January 31, 2020
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Share this episode with your husband! It's for him!

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Read more about the article Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

  • Post published:January 24, 2020
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It's time to develop your erotic mind.

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Read more about the article Episode 91 – Keeping Your Husband Happy

Episode 91 – Keeping Your Husband Happy

  • Post published:January 17, 2020
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Are you trying to keep your husband happy but sex has become a chore?

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Read more about the article Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

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How do you react when approached for sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

  • Post published:January 3, 2020
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10 Mistakes we all make with sex.

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Read more about the article Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

  • Post published:December 27, 2019
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What do you want your sex life to look like in the New Year?

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Read more about the article Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

  • Post published:December 20, 2019
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So much of Christmas is focused around the kids, but don’t forget about creating memories and getting gifts for your spouse.

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Read more about the article Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

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What turns you on? What turns you off?

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Read more about the article Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

  • Post published:December 6, 2019
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Understanding the stages and knowing how your body responds helps you to see where you are and in what areas you might need a little help or to improve to create a fuller, richer experience and sex life.

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Read more about the article Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

  • Post published:November 29, 2019
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Why coaching is great for anyone at any level!

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Read more about the article Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

  • Post published:November 22, 2019
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Anything of value means you need to carve out time for it. What is getting in the way of your sexy time?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

    Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

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