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Read more about the article Episode 74 – How Body Image Affects Sex

Episode 74 – How Body Image Affects Sex

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How does how you think about yourself affect your sex life?

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Read more about the article Episode 73 – I’m Not In The Mood

Episode 73 – I’m Not In The Mood

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What things put you in the mood? What things don’t?

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Read more about the article Episode 72 – I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse

Episode 72 – I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse

  • Post published:September 6, 2019
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What happens when you find yourself not attracted to your spouse anymore?

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benefits of sex

Episode 71 – The Benefits of Sex

  • Post published:August 30, 2019
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Sex has many aspects that benefit us physical, emotional, spiritually and in our relationships. What are these benefits?

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Episode 70 – Changing Our Beliefs About Sex

  • Post published:August 23, 2019
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What do you believe about sex and how does that shape your relationship with yourself and your spouse?

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Read more about the article Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

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Seek the wisdom in your own brain by asking good questions.

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Read more about the article Episode 68 – Watching Your Brain

Episode 68 – Watching Your Brain

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Do you ever watch yourself think?

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Read more about the article Episode 67 – Owning Your Results

Episode 67 – Owning Your Results

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Take responsibility for what is going on in your life.

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Read more about the article Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

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How can you feel emotionally safe in your relationship? How can you try to help your spouse feel emotionally safe?

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Read more about the article Episode 65 – Receiving Love

Episode 65 – Receiving Love

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How do you become a good receiver of love? That’s what we are talking about on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

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Find out how you can make sex better for you on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 63  – Wanting More From Your Spouse

Episode 63 – Wanting More From Your Spouse

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Why do we always want more than what we have? What happens when we get it?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

    In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories of couples who get stuck in this cycle and explain why it happens, especially when a husband’s identity is tied so closely to being “the good guy.” You’ll hear how this dynamic leaves wives feeling unseen and husbands frustrated, even though neither partner wants that outcome. Most importantly, I’ll talk about what both husbands and wives can do to break free from this pattern and build deeper connection and intimacy. Whether you see yourself in these stories or simply want a stronger marriage, this episode has something for you.

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