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Read more about the article The Limitless Female Podcast

The Limitless Female Podcast

  • Post published:June 16, 2020
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  I was interviewed by fellow coach Emylee McIntyre for the Limitless Female Podcast.  We discussed sex when you have depression and how to create desire.  Listen here.

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Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

Episode 112 – Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

  • Post published:June 12, 2020
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Get ready. . .because the title of today’s podcast may already have you squirming.  But understanding and getting help with anal sex is only one topic I will be discussing. …

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Read more about the article Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

  • Post published:June 5, 2020
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Calm the anxieties before and in the bedroom!

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Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

  • Post published:May 29, 2020
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Is your body a burden to you? Or is it a blessing?

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Read more about the article Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

  • Post published:May 22, 2020
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What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

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What is anxiety?  What does it look like?  How is it affecting your life - your partners life? In Podcast #108 I will take a look at anxiety and the…

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Read more about the article Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

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I am stepping out of my sexuality niche for just a minute on today’s podcast.  Episode  #107 is all about your thoughts.  I will discuss your higher and lower brain,…

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Read more about the article Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

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How do you know what kinds of foods you like? You try them - right? The same goes for your sexual experiences.  This week on the podcast I may challenge…

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Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

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Join me this week as I take you on a little journey of comparisons. . .with food.    Each of us wants and needs a healthy relationship with food - …

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Read more about the article Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

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Is the desire for your spouse gone - or maybe it’s the other way around? Are there parts of your human imperfect self that you do not desire and would rather…

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Read more about the article Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

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An amazing interview with one of my clients and her journey to embracing her sexuality.

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Episode 102 – Building Intimacy During Isolation

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This is covering just about everything you might need right now.  I will be talking about managing our brains around the stress and anxiety you might be feeling, I will…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder

    What if one of the most familiar teachings about sexuality deserves a second look? In this episode, I take a careful look at Alma 39 and the teaching that sexual sin is “next to murder,” exploring the historical origins of that interpretation, how it became so embedded in Latter-Day Saint culture, and why I believe the scripture may be saying something very different. I also discuss the lasting impact this belief has had on individuals and marriages, especially through shame and fear, and how a closer reading of the text can open the door to healing, healthier intimacy, and a more compassionate understanding of God. If this teaching has ever shaped the way you view yourself, your sexuality, or your marriage, I hope this episode gives you a new perspective to prayerfully consider.

    I would suggest that you listen to the first 3 episodes in this series before listening to this episode. You can find those here: 428, 429, and 430

    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
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