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Read more about the article Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

  • Post published:December 27, 2019
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What do you want your sex life to look like in the New Year?

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Read more about the article Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

  • Post published:December 20, 2019
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So much of Christmas is focused around the kids, but don’t forget about creating memories and getting gifts for your spouse.

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Read more about the article Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

  • Post published:December 13, 2019
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What turns you on? What turns you off?

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Read more about the article Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

  • Post published:December 6, 2019
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Understanding the stages and knowing how your body responds helps you to see where you are and in what areas you might need a little help or to improve to create a fuller, richer experience and sex life.

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Read more about the article Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

  • Post published:November 29, 2019
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Why coaching is great for anyone at any level!

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Read more about the article Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

  • Post published:November 22, 2019
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Anything of value means you need to carve out time for it. What is getting in the way of your sexy time?

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Read more about the article Episode 82 – Sex Rules

Episode 82 – Sex Rules

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We all have rules and expectations with sex. Do you know yours?

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Read more about the article Episode 81 – Good Girl Syndrome

Episode 81 – Good Girl Syndrome

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Sexuality and Spirituality

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Read more about the article Episode 80 – How To Be Sexy

Episode 80 – How To Be Sexy

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How to be sexy and why that's ok!

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Improving Intimacy Podcast

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I was interviewed by Daniel Burgess, LMFT on the Improving Intimacy Podcast about creating sexual desire and my work as a life coach.

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Read more about the article Episode 79 – Why I Believe

Episode 79 – Why I Believe

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My Testimony of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints

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Read more about the article Episode 78 – Guilt, Shame, and Eroticism

Episode 78 – Guilt, Shame, and Eroticism

  • Post published:October 18, 2019
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In a recent survey I conducted, 40% of married women said they feel guilt and shame about sex.  In this episode, we are addressing where this guilt and shame are…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier

    In this episode, I’m inviting you to look at a pattern that might be quietly shaping your sex life without you realizing it. We’re talking about what happens when sex becomes a way to soothe anxiety, seek reassurance, or calm uncomfortable emotions instead of a place of desire and connection. I share real examples of how this shows up in marriages, why it feels helpful in the moment, and why it often leaves both partners feeling disconnected afterward. Most importantly, we explore what becomes possible when sex no longer has to carry the weight of proving everything is okay. If you want a sex life that feels lighter, more present, and rooted in genuine connection, this episode is for you.

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