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Read more about the article Episode 76 – Default Sex Thoughts

Episode 76 – Default Sex Thoughts

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What thoughts does your brain offer to you when you think about sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 75 – The Big “O”

Episode 75 – The Big “O”

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This week's episode is all about orgasms. What are they? What do you they feel like? What keeps you from having one?   Play in a new window Download Show Summary:…

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Read more about the article Episode 74 – How Body Image Affects Sex

Episode 74 – How Body Image Affects Sex

  • Post published:September 20, 2019
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How does how you think about yourself affect your sex life?

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Read more about the article Episode 73 – I’m Not In The Mood

Episode 73 – I’m Not In The Mood

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What things put you in the mood? What things don’t?

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Read more about the article Episode 72 – I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse

Episode 72 – I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse

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What happens when you find yourself not attracted to your spouse anymore?

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Episode 71 – The Benefits of Sex

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Sex has many aspects that benefit us physical, emotional, spiritually and in our relationships. What are these benefits?

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Episode 70 – Changing Our Beliefs About Sex

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What do you believe about sex and how does that shape your relationship with yourself and your spouse?

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Read more about the article Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

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Seek the wisdom in your own brain by asking good questions.

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Episode 68 – Watching Your Brain

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Do you ever watch yourself think?

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Read more about the article Episode 67 – Owning Your Results

Episode 67 – Owning Your Results

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Take responsibility for what is going on in your life.

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Read more about the article Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

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How can you feel emotionally safe in your relationship? How can you try to help your spouse feel emotionally safe?

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Episode 65 – Receiving Love

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How do you become a good receiver of love? That’s what we are talking about on this week’s episode.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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