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techniques for better orgasms

Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms

  • Post published:December 5, 2025
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In this episode, I will walk you through a question I’ve heard from so many women over the years: How do I know if I’m actually having an orgasm? I’ll…

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sexual hygiene tips, intimate hygiene for couples,

Episode 397 – The Unsexy Truth About Sexual Hygiene

  • Post published:November 28, 2025
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the practical side of sexual hygiene and why it matters so much for intimacy, confidence, and overall sexual health. I walk through the basics…

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postpartum intimacy shifts

Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby

  • Post published:November 21, 2025
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I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge…

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sex during pregnancy

Episode 395 – Sex During Pregnancy: A Trimester-by-Trimester Guide

  • Post published:November 14, 2025
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Pregnancy brings so many changes, and your intimate life is one of them, but it doesn’t have to disappear for nine months. In this episode, I’m answering real listener questions…

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enhanced sexual connection

Episode 394 – The Unexpected Intimacy of Creating Intimacy Products with Justin and Natalie Weeks

  • Post published:November 7, 2025
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In this episode, I’m sitting down with Justin and Natalie Weeks, the founders of Evree Intimate Massage Oil and Lubricant, to talk about how one thoughtful idea completely transformed their…

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sex equals love myth

Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love

  • Post published:October 31, 2025
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In this episode, I dive into one of the most damaging beliefs I see in relationships: the idea that sex equals love. I’ll share why this thinking creates unnecessary pain,…

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sexual rejection in marriage

Episode 392 – Why Sexual Rejection Feels So Personal

  • Post published:October 24, 2025
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Sexual rejection is one of the most painful experiences in marriage, but is your spouse really rejecting you or just rejecting sex? In this episode, I break down the two…

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framing sex as a need

Episode 391 – I Meet Her Needs, Why Won’t She Meet Mine?

  • Post published:October 17, 2025
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So many men tell me, “I meet all her needs, why can’t she meet mine?” Almost always that “need” is sex. I understand the frustration behind that question, but here’s…

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Neuroplasticity in relationships

Episode 390 – The Brain Chemistry of Sex

  • Post published:October 10, 2025
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Have you ever wondered why you can feel like a totally different person during sex than afterward? In this episode, I break down what’s actually happening in your brain before,…

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Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

  • Post published:October 3, 2025
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In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories…

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hidden grief in religious communities, sexual grief in conservative faiths,

Episode 388 – Sexual Grief

  • Post published:September 26, 2025
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Sexual grief is something many experience but few talk about. In this episode, we explore what it means to grieve the sex life you thought you’d have, and why making…

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Why do wives often reject intimacy in marriage

Episode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 19, 2025
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In this episode, I’m tackling one of the most common questions I hear in my coaching practice: why do so many women say no to sex? The truth is, it’s…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms

    In this episode, I will walk you through a question I’ve heard from so many women over the years: How do I know if I’m actually having an orgasm? I’ll explain what weak orgasms, subtle climaxes, and full-body releases really feel like and why it’s so common to be unsure. I’ll share the most frequent reasons orgasms feel muted and teach you practical techniques—like the plateau method, pelvic floor engagement, deeper breathing, and mindset shifts—to help you build stronger, more satisfying orgasms. I’ll also guide you through why solo and partnered orgasms can feel different and how to bring that same confident pleasure into your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered whether your orgasms could feel clearer, stronger, or more intense, this episode will feel like the conversation you’ve been needing.

    Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms
    Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms
    December 5, 2025
    Episode 397 – The Unsexy Truth About Sexual Hygiene
    November 28, 2025
    Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby
    November 21, 2025
    Episode 395 – Sex During Pregnancy: A Trimester-by-Trimester Guide
    November 14, 2025
    Episode 394 – The Unexpected Intimacy of Creating Intimacy Products with Justin and Natalie Weeks
    November 7, 2025
    Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love
    October 31, 2025
    Episode 392 – Why Sexual Rejection Feels So Personal
    October 24, 2025
    Episode 391 – I Meet Her Needs, Why Won’t She Meet Mine?
    October 17, 2025
    Episode 390 – The Brain Chemistry of Sex
    October 10, 2025
    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire
    October 3, 2025
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