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Sad couple after quarrel in bedroom

Episode 289 – Consequences of Sexual Accommodation

  • Post published:November 3, 2023
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I think we all want to have an intimate marriage, but we often miss one important step in achieving that. To have an intimate marriage, we must understand and make…

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healthy eating

Episode 288 – How Your Eating Can Affect Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 27, 2023
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Have you ever thought about how food can affect your sex life? That’s what I’m discussing today with my guest and fellow life coach Lisa Salisbury. Thinking about what you…

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more exciting sex

Episode 287 – Overcoming Boredom in Sex

  • Post published:October 20, 2023
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Many women tell me that sex is boring for them, which is one of the reasons why they don’t have a strong desire for it.  No one craves boredom.  We…

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Episode 286 – Sexual Myths Learned From Porn

  • Post published:October 13, 2023
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The lack of sex education is a real issue in our country, so often people turn to pornography to learn about sex, which doesn’t actually help our understanding of sex…

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Episode 285 – How Women Can Have Multiple Orgasms

  • Post published:October 6, 2023
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Orgasms are an amazing experience! For most people, they are the most powerful feeling of pleasure available here on Earth. While men have a recovery period after orgasm, women do…

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other partners

Episode 284 – When Your Spouse Has Had Other Sexual Partners

  • Post published:September 29, 2023
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I often get asked by my clients what they can do if their spouse has had other sexual partners. While the reason behind this can vary, it often leaves the…

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sex while apart

Episode 283 – Maintaining a Great Sex Life While You Are Apart

  • Post published:September 22, 2023
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You’ve heard the old adage, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” right? While that can be true, being apart from your spouse can really affect your intimacy. So in this…

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Episode 282 – Sexual Wellness – An Interview with Holly Henry

  • Post published:September 15, 2023
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Our overall wellness as women is so important for not just our lives, but also our sexual being. So today I’m talking with Holly Henry all about sexual wellness. She…

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Episode 281 – The Importance of Physical Intimacy in Marriage

  • Post published:September 8, 2023
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When I say “physical intimacy in marriage”, what does that bring up? Usually it’s sex. But intimacy is so much more than just sex. It’s eye contact and hand holding.…

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Episode 280 – How To Keep The Romance Alive in Marriage

  • Post published:September 1, 2023
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I often get asked how to keep the flames of romance burning after you’ve been married a long time. So, that’s what we’re going to talk about today. How do…

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Episode 279 – The Mind-Body Connection

  • Post published:August 25, 2023
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Your brain is your biggest sex organ. Have you noticed what you’re thinking about sex? In this episode, we’re going to talk about the mind-body connection when it comes to…

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Episode 278 – Teaching Your Kids About Sex, Shame Free

  • Post published:August 18, 2023
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In Come Follow Me this coming week, we read about Paul’s sexual purity letter to the Corinthians. Because of this, I think it’s a great time to not only talk…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

    Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
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    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
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    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
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    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
    Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire
    December 19, 2025
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