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pressure to perform

Episode 176 – Pressure to Perform

  • Post published:September 3, 2021
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In this episode, we’re talking about pressure. Both the pressure we put on ourselves and the pressure we feel from our spouses. And in reality, how the internal and external…

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language of love and sex

Episode 175 – The Language of Love and Sex

  • Post published:August 27, 2021
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In this episode, let’s talk about words. What are words? They are just letters and syllables that we have been taught are good or bad. But why are they good…

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Episode 174 – How I Fixed My Sexual Relationship: An Interview with Mike Peterson

  • Post published:August 20, 2021
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In this episode, I speak with Mike Peterson about his experiences with fixing his sexual relationship in his marriage. I am so excited to share with you the male perspective…

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Episode 173 – My Experience with Boudoir Photography

  • Post published:August 13, 2021
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In this episode, I am going to get a little vulnerable with you and talk about my experience with boudoir photography. I, like you, had the wrong idea about what…

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Episode 172 – Myths and Truths of Men’s Sexuality

  • Post published:August 6, 2021
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In American and Conservative Christian culture, we are often taught things about men’s sexuality that are myths. Actually, they are really outright lies. In this episode, we go through 3…

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equality

Episode 171 – Equality in Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

  • Post published:July 30, 2021
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about equality in marriage. This is something that is ingrained in our culture but can be really detrimental to our marriages.…

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sexual repression

Episode 170 – Sexual Repression and the Parable of The Talents

  • Post published:July 23, 2021
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Have you buried your sexual desire? How do you know if you have? In our conservative Christian culture, we are often taught that sex is bad or unpleasant, that thinking…

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Initiating

Episode 169 – Initiating Ideas and Styles

  • Post published:July 16, 2021
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Is your husband always initiating sex? In a recent study, that’s what they found, that often men are the ones initiating. But why aren’t you initiating sex? Today we are…

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Episode 168 – Consent within Marriage

  • Post published:July 9, 2021
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Consent is truly a buzzword right now. In this episode, we take a look at what consent truly means, in your sex life and beyond, and how we can be…

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Episode 167 – Is Sex A Need?

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Is sex a need? The answer is no...kind of. There are differing viewpoints on how important sex is to each of us, but what we really need to look at…

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Episode 166 – Safety, Trust, and Vulnerability

  • Post published:June 25, 2021
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The 3 keys to any healthy sexual relationship are safety, trust, and vulnerability. And they all build on each other. If we don’t feel safe, we can’t trust our partner,…

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Episode 165 – Sex and the Menstrual Cycle

  • Post published:June 18, 2021
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I get asked a lot about desire. My clients notice that throughout the month they are either really ready for sex or they don’t want it at all. And then…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, I dive into one of the most damaging beliefs I see in relationships: the idea that sex equals love. I’ll share why this thinking creates unnecessary pain, pressure, and misunderstandings between partners, and how it often masks the many other ways love is expressed. You’ll learn how to recognize love outside of sexual intimacy, why separating sex from love can actually strengthen both, and practical shifts you can make to bring more connection, authenticity, and joy into your relationship. By the end, you’ll walk away with tools to reframe how you see love and intimacy so you can build a healthier, more fulfilling marriage. This is a great episode! I can’t wait for you to listen.

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