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Episode 174 – How I Fixed My Sexual Relationship: An Interview with Mike Peterson

  • Post published:August 20, 2021
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In this episode, I speak with Mike Peterson about his experiences with fixing his sexual relationship in his marriage. I am so excited to share with you the male perspective…

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Episode 173 – My Experience with Boudoir Photography

  • Post published:August 13, 2021
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In this episode, I am going to get a little vulnerable with you and talk about my experience with boudoir photography. I, like you, had the wrong idea about what…

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Episode 172 – Myths and Truths of Men’s Sexuality

  • Post published:August 6, 2021
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In American and Conservative Christian culture, we are often taught things about men’s sexuality that are myths. Actually, they are really outright lies. In this episode, we go through 3…

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Episode 171 – Equality in Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

  • Post published:July 30, 2021
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about equality in marriage. This is something that is ingrained in our culture but can be really detrimental to our marriages.…

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Episode 170 – Sexual Repression and the Parable of The Talents

  • Post published:July 23, 2021
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Have you buried your sexual desire? How do you know if you have? In our conservative Christian culture, we are often taught that sex is bad or unpleasant, that thinking…

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Episode 169 – Initiating Ideas and Styles

  • Post published:July 16, 2021
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Is your husband always initiating sex? In a recent study, that’s what they found, that often men are the ones initiating. But why aren’t you initiating sex? Today we are…

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Episode 168 – Consent within Marriage

  • Post published:July 9, 2021
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Consent is truly a buzzword right now. In this episode, we take a look at what consent truly means, in your sex life and beyond, and how we can be…

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Episode 167 – Is Sex A Need?

  • Post published:July 2, 2021
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Is sex a need? The answer is no...kind of. There are differing viewpoints on how important sex is to each of us, but what we really need to look at…

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Episode 166 – Safety, Trust, and Vulnerability

  • Post published:June 25, 2021
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The 3 keys to any healthy sexual relationship are safety, trust, and vulnerability. And they all build on each other. If we don’t feel safe, we can’t trust our partner,…

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Episode 165 – Sex and the Menstrual Cycle

  • Post published:June 18, 2021
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I get asked a lot about desire. My clients notice that throughout the month they are either really ready for sex or they don’t want it at all. And then…

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Episode 164 – Oral Sex Hangups

  • Post published:June 11, 2021
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In our conservative Christian culture, oral sex comes with a lot of hang ups. But it doesn’t need to. In this episode, let’s talk about how amazing oral sex can…

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Episode 163 – Sexual Fantasies & Intentions

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We have all read those scriptures that tell us that thinking about sex is bad. But, what if we’re interpreting those scriptures wrong? In this episode, we explore what those…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex

    If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh air. I’m sharing why the harder you push for connection, the more distance you might actually be creating, and what’s really going on underneath that dynamic. We’ll talk about the subtle pressure that shows up in relationships (even with the best intentions) and why it can shut desire down completely. I’ll walk you through a simple but powerful framework called the ABC Loop that helps you create change without resistance. If you’re tired of feeling rejected or stuck, this episode will give you a completely different way to approach intimacy.

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    Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy
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    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
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    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
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    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
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    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
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    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
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