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3 Keys to Great Sex

Episode 114 – 3 Keys to Great Sex

  • Post published:June 26, 2020
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Every magazine seems to have different tips for a great sex life.  But Hollywood doesn’t have the corner market on YOUR sex life. It’s time to look inside ourselves and…

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Entitled to Pleasure

Episode 113 – Entitled to Pleasure

  • Post published:June 19, 2020
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You might be aroused and not even know it.

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Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

Episode 112 – Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

  • Post published:June 12, 2020
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Get ready. . .because the title of today’s podcast may already have you squirming.  But understanding and getting help with anal sex is only one topic I will be discussing. …

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Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

  • Post published:June 5, 2020
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Calm the anxieties before and in the bedroom!

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Read more about the article Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

  • Post published:May 29, 2020
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Is your body a burden to you? Or is it a blessing?

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Read more about the article Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

  • Post published:May 22, 2020
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What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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Read more about the article Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

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What is anxiety?  What does it look like?  How is it affecting your life - your partners life? In Podcast #108 I will take a look at anxiety and the…

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Read more about the article Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

  • Post published:May 8, 2020
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I am stepping out of my sexuality niche for just a minute on today’s podcast.  Episode  #107 is all about your thoughts.  I will discuss your higher and lower brain,…

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Read more about the article Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

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How do you know what kinds of foods you like? You try them - right? The same goes for your sexual experiences.  This week on the podcast I may challenge…

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Read more about the article Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

  • Post published:April 24, 2020
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Join me this week as I take you on a little journey of comparisons. . .with food.    Each of us wants and needs a healthy relationship with food - …

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Read more about the article Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

  • Post published:April 17, 2020
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Is the desire for your spouse gone - or maybe it’s the other way around? Are there parts of your human imperfect self that you do not desire and would rather…

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Read more about the article Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

  • Post published:April 10, 2020
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An amazing interview with one of my clients and her journey to embracing her sexuality.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it isn’t invited first, especially in conversations about sex and intimacy. I walk through how unsolicited feedback triggers defensiveness in our nervous systems, why both higher-desire and lower-desire spouses fall into this pattern, and how asking for consent before sharing can completely change the conversation. We’ll also talk about practical ways to create emotional safety, move from defensiveness to curiosity, and build a marriage where both people actually feel heard. Sometimes the smallest shift, simply asking “Can I?”, can open the door to the kind of connection you’ve been wanting all along.

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