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duty sex in marriage

Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex

  • Post published:January 30, 2026

In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t…

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comparison in marriage

Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

  • Post published:January 23, 2026

In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts…

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Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women

Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women

  • Post published:January 16, 2026

In this episode, I want to talk about something a lot of women quietly wonder but rarely say out loud: what if sex isn’t bad, but it’s also not very…

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Sex As A Pacifier

Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier

  • Post published:January 9, 2026

In this episode, I’m inviting you to look at a pattern that might be quietly shaping your sex life without you realizing it. We’re talking about what happens when sex…

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Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering

  • Post published:January 2, 2026

Have you ever noticed how sex can feel like something you “check off,” followed by days or weeks of not thinking about it at all? In this episode, I’m inviting…

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lies your brain tells you about sex

Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

  • Post published:December 26, 2025

In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is…

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Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire

  • Post published:December 19, 2025

This episode marks my 400th conversation about sex, marriage, and building a relationship that actually feels good to live inside, and I’m incredibly grateful you’re here for it. To celebrate,…

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why infusing passion into every day life matters

Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage

  • Post published:December 12, 2025

In this episode, I’m talking about what it really looks like to infuse sexual energy throughout your marriage, not just during planned intimacy, but in the everyday moments that make…

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techniques for better orgasms

Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms

  • Post published:December 5, 2025

In this episode, I will walk you through a question I’ve heard from so many women over the years: How do I know if I’m actually having an orgasm? I’ll…

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sexual hygiene tips, intimate hygiene for couples,

Episode 397 – The Unsexy Truth About Sexual Hygiene

  • Post published:November 28, 2025

In this episode, I’m breaking down the practical side of sexual hygiene and why it matters so much for intimacy, confidence, and overall sexual health. I walk through the basics…

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Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby

  • Post published:November 21, 2025

I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge…

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Episode 395 – Sex During Pregnancy: A Trimester-by-Trimester Guide

  • Post published:November 14, 2025

Pregnancy brings so many changes, and your intimate life is one of them, but it doesn’t have to disappear for nine months. In this episode, I’m answering real listener questions…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want

    Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
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    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch
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    September 11, 2026
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    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
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