Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based…
Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their…
Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
In this episode of Sex for Saints, I walk through the six stages of marriage and explain why so many couples feel stuck, disconnected, or ready to give up around…
Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
In this episode, I talk about a struggle I hear from women all the time but that rarely gets named out loud: loving your husband deeply while feeling disconnected from…
Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t…
Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts…
Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
In this episode, I want to talk about something a lot of women quietly wonder but rarely say out loud: what if sex isn’t bad, but it’s also not very…
Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
In this episode, I’m inviting you to look at a pattern that might be quietly shaping your sex life without you realizing it. We’re talking about what happens when sex…
Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
Have you ever noticed how sex can feel like something you “check off,” followed by days or weeks of not thinking about it at all? In this episode, I’m inviting…
Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is…
Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire
This episode marks my 400th conversation about sex, marriage, and building a relationship that actually feels good to live inside, and I’m incredibly grateful you’re here for it. To celebrate,…
Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage
In this episode, I’m talking about what it really looks like to infuse sexual energy throughout your marriage, not just during planned intimacy, but in the everyday moments that make…