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Read more about the article Episode 335 – The Benefits of Sleeping Nude

Episode 335 – The Benefits of Sleeping Nude

  • Post published:September 20, 2024

Is it time to ditch your pajamas? This topic may make you blush, but let’s talk about why we might want to think about sleeping nude or partially nude. From…

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How to handle unanswered arousal

Episode 334 – What to do with Unanswered Arousal

  • Post published:September 13, 2024

Let’s be honest, most of us were not taught what to do when our arousal was unanswered. So, let’s talk about it. What happens when we’re turned on, but our…

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Read more about the article Episode 333 – Breaking Free of Sexual Archetypes

Episode 333 – Breaking Free of Sexual Archetypes

  • Post published:September 6, 2024

What is an archetype? In very simple terms, it’s a “should”. As the man, I “should” be the primary breadwinner. As the woman, I “should” cater to my husband’s sexual…

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Read more about the article Episode 332 – What Is Your Touch Communicating

Episode 332 – What Is Your Touch Communicating

  • Post published:August 30, 2024

I often see people wanting to uplevel their sex lives, but ignoring non-sexual touch completely. But, non-sexual physical intimacy is just as important, if not more important than sexual intimacy.…

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teens interrupting sex

Episode 331 – Are Your Teens Interrupting Your Sex Life?

  • Post published:August 23, 2024

I recently got a DM from a listener asking me how to navigate her sexual relationship with teens in the house. We often think that little kids make it harder…

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Consumption vs Connection

Episode 330 – Consumption vs Connection

  • Post published:August 16, 2024

I recently had the opportunity to be a guest on the Therapy Brothers Podcast. I talked with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection. I really enjoyed…

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mindful sex

Episode 329 – A Different Way to Approach Sex

  • Post published:August 9, 2024

What if I told you that the way you have been thinking about sex is wrong? What if that’s the reason you don’t have the sex life that you thought…

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Fantasy vs Reality

Episode 328 – Fantasy vs Desire

  • Post published:August 2, 2024

I’ve noticed a lot of people expressing problems with their spouse’s fantasies. They don’t understand certain fantasies, and they are afraid that their spouse wants to turn them into reality.…

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Fresh Living on KUTV

  • Post published:July 30, 2024

In this great TV interview, I got to speak with Kari Hawker-Diaz of Fresh Living about the impact of marriage on women's health. So, if you're looking to improve your…

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healthy couples

Episode 327 – Traits of Healthy Couples

  • Post published:July 26, 2024

Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Many of us don’t because our parents didn’t know what a healthy couple looked like either. But we can change that…

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conflict

Episode 326 – Mining for Conflict to Increase Intimacy

  • Post published:July 19, 2024

In this episode, I want to talk about something that may make you feel a little uncomfortable - mining for conflict. It is absolutely crucial for the health and intimacy…

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consumption vs connection

Therapy Brothers Podcast

  • Post published:July 16, 2024

In this great episode, I got to talk with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection in relationships. We explored how focusing on physical pleasure versus emotional…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 446 – Is Sex an Obligation in Marriage?

    Many husbands believe that because they’re married, sex should happen when they want it, and that they’ve been wronged when it doesn’t. In this episode, Amanda looks at where that belief comes from, the subtle ways it shows up after a “no,” and why threats and pressure end up getting husbands less of the sex they want. Through one couple’s journey from ultimatums to repair, she explores what it takes to stop feeling owed and start being chosen. She also offers guidance for wives living with a husband’s entitlement and for husbands whose wives won’t talk about it. If you’ve ever wondered whether sex is an obligation in marriage, this conversation is for you.

    Episode 446 – Is Sex an Obligation in Marriage?
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