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sexual compatibility

Episode 270 – Sexual Compatibility

  • Post published:June 23, 2023
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Do you worry that you aren’t sexually compatible with your spouse? I think truly being sexually incompatible is rare. But in this episode, we talk about those questions you may…

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Episode 269 – Emotional or Physical Intimacy First?

  • Post published:June 16, 2023
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One of the most common disagreements I hear from couples about sex are about emotional and physical intimacy and which goes first. In my mind, it looks a lot like…

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Episode 268 – Affection Without Expectation

  • Post published:June 9, 2023
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When I was first married to my first husband, it felt like he ALWAYS wanted sex. If I showed him any affection at all, it had to lead to sex.…

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Episode 267 – Sexual Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning

  • Post published:June 2, 2023
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Let me ask you a question. Are you overfunctioning or underfunctioning in your sexual relationship with your spouse? Taking a look at yourself and honestly answering this question can help…

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Believing you ARE a Good Mom Podcast

  • Post published:June 1, 2023
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I was interviewed by Emily Wardrop of Believe you ARE a Good Mom podcast. We talked about how sex is for YOU even when your kids are young. Listen here. 

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Episode 266 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 2

  • Post published:May 26, 2023
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This is part two of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. This week we’re talking more about our young adults and how they are really…

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Episode 265 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 1

  • Post published:May 19, 2023
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This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot…

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Overcome Pornography for Good Podcast

  • Post published:May 16, 2023
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Many of us have received the conditioning that men are typically the sexual ones in a relationship and that they have an insatiable sexual need that has to be satisfied.…

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Episode 264 – Igniting Passion In Your Sex Life

  • Post published:May 12, 2023
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Have you noticed that the passion in your sex life has disappeared? It’s time to ignite it again, don’t you think? I was recently on Ashlee Sorenson’s podcast called A…

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Episode 263 – How Do You Define Sex?

  • Post published:May 5, 2023
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Our definition of sex can really affect how much sex we’re getting. So, how do you define sex? Is sex just penetration and orgasm? Or are there other activities that…

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Episode 262 – Sleep Divorce

  • Post published:April 28, 2023
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Have you heard about sleep divorce? "Sleep divorce" is a situation where couples sleep separately on a regular basis to improve their sleep quality due to issues like snoring, different…

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Episode 261 – Is Jealousy Good or Bad for a Marriage?

  • Post published:April 21, 2023
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Have you ever been jealous in your relationship? Around 77% of people report feeling at least an occasional jealousy in their relationships. In this episode, we’re talking about jealousy and…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby

    I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge transition. Last week we talked about sex during pregnancy, and today we’re looking at what comes next, because bringing home a baby reshapes your relationship in ways you can’t always prepare for. Whether you’re expecting your first or remembering those early days, I want you to feel seen, supported, and reminded that nothing is “wrong” with you if things feel off. I’ll walk you through what the research shows about why so many couples struggle, and the practical habits that help the strongest partnerships find their way back to connection. My goal is to help you understand what’s normal, what’s fixable, and how you can rebuild intimacy with compassion – for yourself and for each other.

    Book mentioned: And Baby Makes Three

    Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby
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    Episode 390 – The Brain Chemistry of Sex
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    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire
    October 3, 2025
    Episode 388 – Sexual Grief
    September 26, 2025
    Episode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex
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