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Episode 233 – Your Sexual Prime

  • Post published:October 7, 2022
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I think it’s safe to say that we all want a great sex life. But most of us just don’t know how to get it! When we run into problems…

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A Bit Better Every Day with Ashlee Sorensen Podcast

  • Post published:October 3, 2022
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Listen in as my dear friend Ashlee and I have a  friendly and fun conversation about sex. Listen here.

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  • Post published:October 3, 2022
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Episode 232 – I Don’t Care if I Ever Have Sex Again: A Conversation with Mike Frazier, MD

  • Post published:September 30, 2022
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In this episode I’m talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks when she says that she doesn’t care if she ever…

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Episode 231 – Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 23, 2022
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Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex is or that bad sex is better than no sex.…

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Sprinkled with Hope Podcast

  • Post published:September 20, 2022
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In this episode, we talked about how I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about sex, and I had a lot of shame around my sexuality and…

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Episode 230 – Sex Isn’t A Drive

  • Post published:September 16, 2022
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Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think…

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Episode 229 – Duty Sex

  • Post published:September 9, 2022
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What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it.…

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Episode 228 – Female Ejaculation

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One of the topics I get the most DMs about is female ejaculation. Either women who do it all the time and want to stop or women wanting to know…

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Episode 227 – How can I be Righteous and Sexual?

  • Post published:August 26, 2022
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I think most of us want to be righteous. We want to do what is right. But where is that line when it comes to sex in our marriages? That’s…

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Episode 226 – The Mental Load That Is Affecting Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 19, 2022
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Do you feel mentally overwhelmed with everything you need to do to take care of your family? With all of the activities, and the doctor's appointments, and the school calendars,…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex

    In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t want, while her husband still feels unsatisfied. I’ll explain why orgasms aren’t the same thing as satisfaction, and how duty sex can actually block the connection both partners are craving. I’ll unpack how this pattern creates deep resentment for her, confusion for him, and eventually a crisis point that forces the relationship to change. I’ll also share what real repair can look like, how couples can move from obligation to genuine desire, and why quality and connection matter far more than frequency. This episode will be especially helpful for anyone who feels stuck in a painful sexual stalemate and wants clarity on what’s really going wrong and what healing could look like.

    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
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