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Episode 221 – Healing from Infidelity: An Interview with Andrea Giles

  • Post published:July 15, 2022
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In this podcast episode, I talk with Andrea Giles. Andrea helps women heal from infidelity in her coaching program. We talked about how to build trust with yourself again after…

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Episode 220 – The Fear of Pleasure

  • Post published:July 8, 2022
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Do you fear pleasure? You might be saying ‘no’ but many of my clients do. Think about it. Do you take compliments well? Do you look at others who are…

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Dating After Divorce Podcast

  • Post published:July 6, 2022
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In today’s episode, I share my divorce and remarriage story, how I came out of an emotionally abusive marriage and how I met my current husband six weeks after my…

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Episode 219 – Conscious Partnerships

  • Post published:July 1, 2022
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When we get married, we often think that if we married the “right person,” then everything will be easy. This is simply not true. Every relationship takes work. In this…

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​​Episode 218 – The Importance of Being Selfish

  • Post published:June 24, 2022
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Do you think that your own desires are selfish? Most of us women do. We’ve been taught this by well meaning people either explicitly or implicitly. While our desires are…

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Episode 217 – Reclaiming Desire & Eros

  • Post published:June 17, 2022
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Do you remember what it was like when you were dating your husband? Every touch was electric. You felt alive, maybe for the first time. That was eros energy. The…

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Episode 216 – CFM: Why is Chastity Important in God’s Plan?

  • Post published:June 10, 2022
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There is a Come, Follow Me lesson coming up in the youth program about the Law of Chastity. I feel that we need to be careful when we’re teaching our…

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The Confident Mompreneur Podcast

  • Post published:June 7, 2022
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In this episode, I talked with Kyrie from The Confident Mompreneur podcast about how to develop a better relationship with our sexuality by rebuilding our beliefs around sex, understanding how…

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Episode 215 – The Sexless Marriage

  • Post published:June 3, 2022
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According to a survey, about 2% of marriages are completely sexless. Or, according to another study, couples are only having sex 10 times a year. Now, if 10 times a…

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Episode 214 – What We Chase Will Run

  • Post published:May 27, 2022
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My clients often say that they don’t communicate well with their husbands, but actually, we as humans are really good at communicating. In fact, only about 7% of communication is…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

    In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories of couples who get stuck in this cycle and explain why it happens, especially when a husband’s identity is tied so closely to being “the good guy.” You’ll hear how this dynamic leaves wives feeling unseen and husbands frustrated, even though neither partner wants that outcome. Most importantly, I’ll talk about what both husbands and wives can do to break free from this pattern and build deeper connection and intimacy. Whether you see yourself in these stories or simply want a stronger marriage, this episode has something for you.

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