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October 2022

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Episode 236 – The High Achieving/Peace Keeping Dynamic

  • Post published:October 28, 2022
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In this episode, I am speaking with Rhonda Farr. Rhonda is a life coach who works with men and their emotional intimacy. We talk about the high achieving/peacekeeper dynamic that…

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Episode 235 – Coaching Changed our Marriage

  • Post published:October 21, 2022
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In this special episode, I spoke with Maddie and Matt. I have been coaching Maddie for a little over a year now. We talked about what my coaching program is…

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Episode 234 – When Kids Disrupt Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 14, 2022
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If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having sex, I would have added a lot to my piggy…

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Episode 233 – Your Sexual Prime

  • Post published:October 7, 2022
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I think it’s safe to say that we all want a great sex life. But most of us just don’t know how to get it! When we run into problems…

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A Bit Better Every Day with Ashlee Sorensen Podcast

  • Post published:October 3, 2022
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Listen in as my dear friend Ashlee and I have a  friendly and fun conversation about sex. Listen here.

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September 2022

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Episode 232 – I Don’t Care if I Ever Have Sex Again: A Conversation with Mike Frazier, MD

  • Post published:September 30, 2022
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In this episode I’m talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks when she says that she doesn’t care if she ever…

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Episode 231 – Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 23, 2022
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Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex is or that bad sex is better than no sex.…

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Sprinkled with Hope Podcast

  • Post published:September 20, 2022
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In this episode, we talked about how I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about sex, and I had a lot of shame around my sexuality and…

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Episode 230 – Sex Isn’t A Drive

  • Post published:September 16, 2022
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Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think…

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Episode 229 – Duty Sex

  • Post published:September 9, 2022
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What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it.…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
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    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
    January 9, 2026
    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
    January 2, 2026
    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
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