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Painful Sex

Episode 116 – Painful Sex

  • Post published:July 10, 2020
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This week I had the privilege of interviewing Valerie Schwalbe from Well Being Physical Therapy in Murray, Utah, specializing in the pelvic floor.  If you have pain during sex, pelvic pain,…

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Fantasy

Episode 115 – Fantasy

  • Post published:July 3, 2020
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 Let’s talk about fantasy. When it comes to sex, what is an appropriate fantasy and what is not? What benefits the marriage and what destroys it? Today I will teach…

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Relationship Anxiety

Relationship Anxiety Podcast

  • Post published:July 2, 2020
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I was interview by fellow life-coach McKell Kristen on her podcast Relationship Anxiety all about anxiety and sex.  You can learn more about McKell and the work she does here.…

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3 Keys to Great Sex

Episode 114 – 3 Keys to Great Sex

  • Post published:June 26, 2020
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Every magazine seems to have different tips for a great sex life.  But Hollywood doesn’t have the corner market on YOUR sex life. It’s time to look inside ourselves and…

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Entitled to Pleasure

Episode 113 – Entitled to Pleasure

  • Post published:June 19, 2020
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You might be aroused and not even know it.

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The Limitless Female Podcast

  • Post published:June 16, 2020
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  I was interviewed by fellow coach Emylee McIntyre for the Limitless Female Podcast.  We discussed sex when you have depression and how to create desire.  Listen here.

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Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

Episode 112 – Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

  • Post published:June 12, 2020
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Get ready. . .because the title of today’s podcast may already have you squirming.  But understanding and getting help with anal sex is only one topic I will be discussing. …

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Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

  • Post published:June 5, 2020
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Calm the anxieties before and in the bedroom!

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Read more about the article Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

  • Post published:May 29, 2020
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Is your body a burden to you? Or is it a blessing?

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Read more about the article Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

  • Post published:May 22, 2020
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What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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Read more about the article Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

  • Post published:May 15, 2020
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What is anxiety?  What does it look like?  How is it affecting your life - your partners life? In Podcast #108 I will take a look at anxiety and the…

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Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

  • Post published:May 8, 2020
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I am stepping out of my sexuality niche for just a minute on today’s podcast.  Episode  #107 is all about your thoughts.  I will discuss your higher and lower brain,…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire

    Many women assume their lack of desire means something is wrong with them, but in this episode, I am going to explain that the real issue is often passive sexuality. We’ll explore the difference between waiting for a spouse to create desire and actively engaging with your own sexuality. Through stories from real clients, I’ll show how small shifts, like noticing attraction, savoring memories of intimacy, or anticipating connection, can gradually change how you experience your sexual relationship. I will also connect this idea to the principle of agency, reminding us that sexuality in marriage is something we can actively cultivate. By moving from passive to active sexuality, couples can experience deeper connection, more engagement, and a renewed sense of ownership in their intimate relationship.

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