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3 Keys to Great Sex

Episode 114 – 3 Keys to Great Sex

  • Post published:June 26, 2020
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Every magazine seems to have different tips for a great sex life.  But Hollywood doesn’t have the corner market on YOUR sex life. It’s time to look inside ourselves and…

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Entitled to Pleasure

Episode 113 – Entitled to Pleasure

  • Post published:June 19, 2020
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You might be aroused and not even know it.

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The Limitless Female Podcast

  • Post published:June 16, 2020
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  I was interviewed by fellow coach Emylee McIntyre for the Limitless Female Podcast.  We discussed sex when you have depression and how to create desire.  Listen here.

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Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

Episode 112 – Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex

  • Post published:June 12, 2020
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Get ready. . .because the title of today’s podcast may already have you squirming.  But understanding and getting help with anal sex is only one topic I will be discussing. …

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Read more about the article Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

Episode 111 – Mindful Sex

  • Post published:June 5, 2020
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Calm the anxieties before and in the bedroom!

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Read more about the article Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

Episode 110 – The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?

  • Post published:May 29, 2020
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Is your body a burden to you? Or is it a blessing?

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Read more about the article Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

  • Post published:May 22, 2020
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What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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Read more about the article Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

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What is anxiety?  What does it look like?  How is it affecting your life - your partners life? In Podcast #108 I will take a look at anxiety and the…

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Read more about the article Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

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I am stepping out of my sexuality niche for just a minute on today’s podcast.  Episode  #107 is all about your thoughts.  I will discuss your higher and lower brain,…

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Read more about the article Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

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How do you know what kinds of foods you like? You try them - right? The same goes for your sexual experiences.  This week on the podcast I may challenge…

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Read more about the article Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

  • Post published:April 24, 2020
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Join me this week as I take you on a little journey of comparisons. . .with food.    Each of us wants and needs a healthy relationship with food - …

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Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

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Is the desire for your spouse gone - or maybe it’s the other way around? Are there parts of your human imperfect self that you do not desire and would rather…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

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