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Communication

Episode 126 – Sexual Communication – Part 2

  • Post published:September 18, 2020
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Welcome to Sexual Communication Part 2.  Let's get back to where we left off last week.  Today I will share the very first communication skill you need in your marriage.…

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Brighter Side of Marriage Podcast

  • Post published:September 14, 2020
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I was interviewed by Monica Tanner of Brighter Side of Marriage Podcast.  We discuss how to change your mindset to increase desire and why that is so beneficial to becoming…

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Communication

Episode 125 – Sexual Communication – Part 1

  • Post published:September 11, 2020
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Four faulty beliefs that keep us from communicating effectively.

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Higher Desire Wife

Episode 124 – The Higher Desire Wife

  • Post published:September 4, 2020
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You asked for it - you got it.  To all of you women who are the higher desire partner - here you go. This podcast will go over emotional, physical…

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Happy With Yourself Podcast

  • Post published:August 28, 2020
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I was interviewed by Becky Smith for the Happy With Yourself podcast.  Episodes 77 & 78!

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Libido

Episode 123 – Increasing Your Libido

  • Post published:August 28, 2020
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Are you convinced your libido is shot? Do you feel like you have nothing left to give at the end of the day?  Stress, illness, medication, hormones or sheer exhaustion…

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Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2020
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One topic I hear often from my clients is that their kids are ruining their sex life.  They are so exhuasted from being a mom, that sex is the last…

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Orgasm

Episode 121 – Why You’re Not Having Orgasms

  • Post published:August 14, 2020
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One of my favorite things I get to do is help women discover how they orgasm so they can experience greater pleasure in their sexual encounters and build a better…

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Episode 120 – He Just Wants Sex

  • Post published:August 7, 2020
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Your brain probably tells you your husband just wants sex - and that it has very little to do with you.  What if you were wrong?  What if it actually…

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Inventive Journey Podcast

  • Post published:August 6, 2020
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  I was interviewed by Devin Miller for the Inventive Journey podcast.  We discussed keeping your marriage as a priority while you start a business.  Listen here.

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Auditory Arousal - Laura M Brotherson

Episode 119 – How ‘Auditory Arousal’ Can Heat Up Your Lovemaking

  • Post published:July 31, 2020
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An Interview the LDS Sex Therapist Laura M Brotherson

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Episode 118 – Honesty in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:July 24, 2020
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Most of us consider ourselves to be honest people, to have integrity.   It may surprise you that this isn’t always the case.  Can you speak truthfully to your partner…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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