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MARRIAGE IQ PODCAST

Marriage IQ Podcast

  • Post published:August 21, 2025
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What if sexual agency isn’t just about saying “yes” or “no”—but about knowing yourself deeply enough to choose with intention? And what does healthy sexuality really look like in marriage—especially…

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Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt

Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt Podcast

  • Post published:August 6, 2025
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I really enjoyed this interview I did with Meagan Skidmore about how I don't believe sexuality will take us to hell. Listen to it here.

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Moms on the Rise Podcast

  • Post published:July 30, 2025
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This was such a fun podcast interview! If you’ve ever thought something needs to change in my marriage, but you’re not sure where to begin — this conversation is your…

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Seasons of Joy Podcast

  • Post published:March 18, 2025
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In this eye-opening conversation, I chatted with Jill Pack, a life and relationship coach. We talked about how midlife women can embrace their sexuality and find wholeness. Listen to it…

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Latter-day Life Coaches Podcast

  • Post published:November 19, 2024
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I got to join Heather from the LDS Life Coaches podcast to talk about the complex topic of sexual desire in marriage. We focused on the common challenges of different…

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DatingAdvice.com

  • Post published:September 25, 2024
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I really would like you to check out this article from DatingAdvice.com. We talk about how years of chastity lessons can really affect a marriage. It's a wonderful article! I…

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Fresh Living on KUTV

  • Post published:July 30, 2024
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In this great TV interview, I got to speak with Kari Hawker-Diaz of Fresh Living about the impact of marriage on women's health. So, if you're looking to improve your…

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Therapy Brothers Podcast

  • Post published:July 16, 2024
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In this great episode, I got to talk with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection in relationships. We explored how focusing on physical pleasure versus emotional…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

    Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

    Here are the questions for this week’s episode.

    Here is the link to the book I talk about, Fully Alive.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
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    August 21, 2026
    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
    July 24, 2026
    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
    July 17, 2026
    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
    July 10, 2026
    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
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