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MARRIAGE IQ PODCAST

Marriage IQ Podcast

  • Post published:August 21, 2025
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What if sexual agency isn’t just about saying “yes” or “no”—but about knowing yourself deeply enough to choose with intention? And what does healthy sexuality really look like in marriage—especially…

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Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt

Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt Podcast

  • Post published:August 6, 2025
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I really enjoyed this interview I did with Meagan Skidmore about how I don't believe sexuality will take us to hell. Listen to it here.

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Moms on the Rise Podcast

  • Post published:July 30, 2025
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This was such a fun podcast interview! If you’ve ever thought something needs to change in my marriage, but you’re not sure where to begin — this conversation is your…

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Seasons of Joy Podcast

  • Post published:March 18, 2025
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In this eye-opening conversation, I chatted with Jill Pack, a life and relationship coach. We talked about how midlife women can embrace their sexuality and find wholeness. Listen to it…

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Latter-day Life Coaches Podcast

  • Post published:November 19, 2024
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I got to join Heather from the LDS Life Coaches podcast to talk about the complex topic of sexual desire in marriage. We focused on the common challenges of different…

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DatingAdvice.com

  • Post published:September 25, 2024
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I really would like you to check out this article from DatingAdvice.com. We talk about how years of chastity lessons can really affect a marriage. It's a wonderful article! I…

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Fresh Living

Fresh Living on KUTV

  • Post published:July 30, 2024
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In this great TV interview, I got to speak with Kari Hawker-Diaz of Fresh Living about the impact of marriage on women's health. So, if you're looking to improve your…

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consumption vs connection

Therapy Brothers Podcast

  • Post published:July 16, 2024
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In this great episode, I got to talk with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection in relationships. We explored how focusing on physical pleasure versus emotional…

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    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering

    Have you ever noticed how sex can feel like something you “check off,” followed by days or weeks of not thinking about it at all? In this episode, I’m inviting you to consider a different way of relating to your sexuality that doesn’t require pressure, performance, or forcing yourself to feel desire. The idea is called “simmering” and I will explain how staying gently connected to your sexual self between encounters can make sex feel easier, more natural, and more mutual. We’ll talk about how anticipation and awareness create desire over time, especially if you’re the lower desire partner. If you want sex to feel less like a mountain to climb and more like something you can ease into, this episode will help you see what’s been missing and how to change it.

    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
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