Skip to content
Amanda Louder Coaching
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • CONTACT ME
  • GET HELP!
    • WOMEN’S MEMBERSHIP
    • COUPLES COACHING
    • INDIVIDUAL COACHING
    • ENGAGED COUPLES COURSE
    • FREE CLASS – THE INTRICACIES OF WOMEN’S DESIRE
    • STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE – LIVE CLASS
    • FAQ
  • EVENTS
    • RETREATS
    • UPLEVEL COUPLES RETREAT
    • SEX SUMMIT 2025
    • SEX SUMMIT BUNDLE
  • PODCAST
    • DIRECTORY
    • FREE PODCAST GUIDE
  • RESOURCES
    • RESOURCES
    • FREEBIES
    • INTERVIEWS
    • ARTICLES
  • GUEST SPEAKING
  • EMBRACE YOU!
  • Toggle website search
Menu Close
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • CONTACT ME
  • GET HELP!
    • WOMEN’S MEMBERSHIP
    • COUPLES COACHING
    • INDIVIDUAL COACHING
    • ENGAGED COUPLES COURSE
    • FREE CLASS – THE INTRICACIES OF WOMEN’S DESIRE
    • STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE – LIVE CLASS
    • FAQ
  • EVENTS
    • RETREATS
    • UPLEVEL COUPLES RETREAT
    • SEX SUMMIT 2025
    • SEX SUMMIT BUNDLE
  • PODCAST
    • DIRECTORY
    • FREE PODCAST GUIDE
  • RESOURCES
    • RESOURCES
    • FREEBIES
    • INTERVIEWS
    • ARTICLES
  • GUEST SPEAKING
  • EMBRACE YOU!
  • Toggle website search

Is rejection a sign of disinterest in a spouse

  1. Home>
  2. Blog>
  3. Is rejection a sign of disinterest in a spouse
Why do wives often reject intimacy in marriage

Episode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 19, 2025
  • Post comments:0 Comments

In this episode, I’m tackling one of the most common questions I hear in my coaching practice: why do so many women say no to sex? The truth is, it’s…

Continue ReadingEpisode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex

Recent Posts

  • Episode 145 – Codependency
    Episode 145 – Codependency
    January 29, 2021/
    0 Comments
  • Episode 160 – Sex And Menopause: An Interview with Cami Hurst
    Episode 160 – Sex And Menopause: An Interview with Cami Hurst
    May 14, 2021/
    0 Comments
  • Episode 143 – Five Mistakes Women Make In Bed
    Episode 143 – Five Mistakes Women Make In Bed
    January 15, 2021/
    0 Comments

    Search

    Contact Me   Terms And Conditions   Privacy Policy

    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love

    In this episode, I dive into one of the most damaging beliefs I see in relationships: the idea that sex equals love. I’ll share why this thinking creates unnecessary pain, pressure, and misunderstandings between partners, and how it often masks the many other ways love is expressed. You’ll learn how to recognize love outside of sexual intimacy, why separating sex from love can actually strengthen both, and practical shifts you can make to bring more connection, authenticity, and joy into your relationship. By the end, you’ll walk away with tools to reframe how you see love and intimacy so you can build a healthier, more fulfilling marriage. This is a great episode! I can’t wait for you to listen.

    Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love
    Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love
    October 31, 2025
    Episode 392 – Why Sexual Rejection Feels So Personal
    October 24, 2025
    Episode 391 – I Meet Her Needs, Why Won’t She Meet Mine?
    October 17, 2025
    Episode 390 – The Brain Chemistry of Sex
    October 10, 2025
    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire
    October 3, 2025
    Episode 388 – Sexual Grief
    September 26, 2025
    Episode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex
    September 19, 2025
    Episode 386 – Blending Your Erotic Minds: How Novelty and Intimacy Keep Marriage Hot an Interview with Katie Runyan
    September 12, 2025
    Episode 385 – The Dangerous Illusion of Sexual Certainty
    September 5, 2025
    Episode 384 – The Difference Between Safety and Security in the Sexual Relationship
    August 29, 2025
    Search Results placeholder

    Tags

    abuse Actions Anxiety arousal beginnings beliefs Body Coaching Communication Confidence Connection consent consumption vs connection control Desire Divorce Emotions Fantasy Fear Feelings Goals Grief Hormones interview intimacy love Marriage mental health orgasm parenting podcast Pornography Relationship Relationships resentment sealed Sex sex life sexual conditioning Sexuality sleep Thoughts Thoughtwork Touch young adult
    • Legal
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms and Conditions of Use
    • Returns & Refunds
    Copyright 2025 - Amanda Louder Coaching - All Rights Reserved

    Amanda Louder is not a mental health professional. She does not diagnose, treat, or provide therapy. Coaching services are for education, tools, and empowerment. Please seek a qualified mental health profession for any mental health conditions.
    By continuing to browse this site, you agree to our use of cookies.

    Send me the 5 Gears of Touch Worksheet!