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Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love

Post published:October 31, 2025
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In this episode, I dive into one of the most damaging beliefs I see in relationships: the idea that sex equals love. I’ll share why this thinking creates unnecessary pain,…

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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge transition. Last week we talked about sex during pregnancy, and today we’re looking at what comes next, because bringing home a baby reshapes your relationship in ways you can’t always prepare for. Whether you’re expecting your first or remembering those early days, I want you to feel seen, supported, and reminded that nothing is “wrong” with you if things feel off. I’ll walk you through what the research shows about why so many couples struggle, and the practical habits that help the strongest partnerships find their way back to connection. My goal is to help you understand what’s normal, what’s fixable, and how you can rebuild intimacy with compassion – for yourself and for each other.

Book mentioned: And Baby Makes Three

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