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Episode 266 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 2

Post published:May 26, 2023
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This is part two of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. This week we’re talking more about our young adults and how they are really…

Episode 265 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 1

Post published:May 19, 2023
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This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot…

Episode 260 – The Sexual Conditioning of Christian Men

Post published:April 14, 2023
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Through my own experience and coaching women for five years, I have come to know what the sexual conditioning of women is in our Christian faith, and how to help…

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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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