Episode 45 – Reacting vs. Responding
Often we react to situations in a split second. We are not even conscious of the thoughts that drive our feelings and actions and we react to a situation poorly. …
Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism
Why do we feel judged? Most of the time it’s a story we make up in our heads based on our insecurities. But what about when they actually say it? What do you do? In this podcast, we will address what judgment and criticism are, and what to do when you do feel you are being judged by others.
Episode 38 – The Gift of Agency
Most people think agency means being able to choose our path. Choose right from wrong. But I think it means much more than that.
Episode 34 – Cultivating Connection & Desire
So many women think they don’t want to have sex because they are tired or “touched out” at the end of the day. What was once a vital and important part of the marriage has taken a back seat to life and child rearing. In this episode, we examine how the thoughts you are telling yourself are killing your sex drive…and how you can get it back!
Episode 25 – What Is The Story You Are Telling Yourself?
When something negative happens, our brains automatically make up a story to protect us. What are the stories that you tell yourself to protect yourself from feeling negative emotions? What stories disengage you from your spouse or make them into a villain? While this is a great way to protect ourselves, it takes us further away from creating the emotional intimacy and connection that we all crave in our relationships. So what stories are you telling yourself?
Episode 24 – Are We Really Meant To Be
Have you ever thought “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Are we really meant to be?” Just about every married person I know has had those thoughts. But in this episode, we talk about why those thoughts aren’t serving you and your marriage.
Episode 21 – How To Stop Feeling Overwhelmed
Do you often feel overwhelmed with life and everything you have going on? In this episode we discuss what is really the cause of you feeling overwhelmed and how you can overcome it so that you can be more confident, organized in your daily life, productive, and feel better.
Episode 20 – Quit Blaming Others For How You Feel
Part of being an emotional adult is taking responsibility for our own emotions. Even in our marriage. It is not our partners responsibility for making us feel loved, secure, and…