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Episode 377 – Good Enough Sex

  • Post published:July 11, 2025

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “We should have sex… but I’m just not feeling it” - only to go through the motions and walk away feeling disconnected? You’re not…

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enneagram sexual patterns

Episode 376 – The Enneagram And Sex

  • Post published:July 4, 2025

Why do you react the way you do in sexual situations, whether it’s craving something specific, avoiding certain dynamics, or feeling stuck in the same patterns? And why does your…

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healthy intimacy in Christian marriage, emotional maturity in relationships, sexual discipline in marriage,

Episode 375 – Sexual Discipline

  • Post published:June 27, 2025

What if sexual discipline isn’t about restriction, but about freedom? In this episode, I’m exploring a concept that doesn’t get much airtime in Christian marriage spaces: sexual discipline within marriage.…

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Sexual disconnect in marriage

Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025

You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

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Episode 373 – When You Feel Stuck in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:June 13, 2025

In this episode, we’re diving into something that can quietly wear down even the strongest relationships: the Two-Choice Dilemma, a concept from Dr. David Schnarch. It’s what happens when you…

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Episode 372 – Better Sex Isn’t About Technique

  • Post published:June 6, 2025

What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They…

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sexual novelty in marriage

Episode 371 – Why Do They Want To Try That?

  • Post published:May 30, 2025

When your spouse suggests trying something new sexually, like a different position, a toy, or even roleplay, it can catch you off guard. Maybe your first thought is, “Where did…

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Episode 370 – When It Feels Like It’s Never Enough

  • Post published:May 23, 2025

Have you ever felt like no matter how much you grow or how open you are to trying new things, it still doesn’t feel like enough for your partner? Maybe…

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Episode 369 – Are You Initiating Too Much?

  • Post published:May 16, 2025

Are you the one who always initiates sex in your relationship, and you’re starting to feel burnt out by it? In this episode, we explore a common dynamic I see…

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mutually fulfilling sex in marriage

Episode 368 – Are You Prioritizing “Your” Kind of Sex Over Connection?

  • Post published:May 9, 2025

Do you ever feel frustrated when your spouse doesn’t want sex the same way, or as often, as you do? In this episode, we explore how rigid expectations around sex…

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Episode 367 – Making Sex Cleanup Simple & Stress-Free

  • Post published:May 2, 2025

Ever found yourself pulled out of a beautiful, intimate moment by the thought, “Ugh, now I have to clean up”? You’re definitely not alone. For many women, post-sex cleanup can…

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temple covenants and marriage

Episode 366 – The Law of Intimacy

  • Post published:April 25, 2025

What if the covenants we make in the Temple are more than just promises—what if they’re a roadmap to deeper connection and intimacy? In this episode, we’re diving into the…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 444 – The Difference Between Being Wanted and Being Loved

    The spouse who wants sex more often tends to believe that all of the effort, the helping, the compliments, the constant attentiveness, is love. Usually it isn’t. In this episode I talk about the difference between wanting someone to love you and actually loving them, and why those two things feel identical from the inside. We look at what a transaction can and cannot buy in a marriage, the anxiety underneath all that pursuit, and what love actually looks like on an ordinary day. There is something here for the spouse who has been doing the pursuing and for the one who has been on the receiving end of it.

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