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Read more about the article Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

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I am stepping out of my sexuality niche for just a minute on today’s podcast.  Episode  #107 is all about your thoughts.  I will discuss your higher and lower brain,…

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Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

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How do you know what kinds of foods you like? You try them - right? The same goes for your sexual experiences.  This week on the podcast I may challenge…

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Read more about the article Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

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Join me this week as I take you on a little journey of comparisons. . .with food.    Each of us wants and needs a healthy relationship with food - …

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Read more about the article Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

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Is the desire for your spouse gone - or maybe it’s the other way around? Are there parts of your human imperfect self that you do not desire and would rather…

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Read more about the article Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

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An amazing interview with one of my clients and her journey to embracing her sexuality.

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Read more about the article Episode 102 – Building Intimacy During Isolation

Episode 102 – Building Intimacy During Isolation

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This is covering just about everything you might need right now.  I will be talking about managing our brains around the stress and anxiety you might be feeling, I will…

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Read more about the article Episode 101 – Sex Under Stress

Episode 101 – Sex Under Stress

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What is stress doing to your sex life? How can sex make you less stressed?

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Read more about the article Episode 100 – How Numbing Out is Hurting Your Sex Life

Episode 100 – How Numbing Out is Hurting Your Sex Life

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When you numb in one area, you numb in all...

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Read more about the article Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

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Are you touched-out?

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Read more about the article Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

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In this week's podcast, I tackle the subject of your sexuality.  What does it look like to you? What does it feel like? Our first impulse is to believe it…

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Read more about the article Episode  97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

Episode 97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

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An interview with Dr. Cameron Staley.

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Read more about the article Episode 96 – Let’s Talk About Lube

Episode 96 – Let’s Talk About Lube

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Do you use lube? There's a lot more to it than you might think!

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 384 – The Difference Between Safety and Security in the Sexual Relationship

    In this episode, we’re unpacking a powerful insight that could completely transform the way you experience intimacy in your marriage. It’s all about the surprising difference between safety and security in your sexual relationship and why understanding it might be the missing piece to reigniting the passion you’ve been longing for. Most people think they’re the same thing, but once you see the distinction, it can change everything about the way you connect with your spouse.

     

    Sources: Safety vs. Security concept credit: Whitni Miller (BDEmoves on Instagram) on “You Are Not Broken” podcast with Dr. Kelly Casperson Episode: “325. Sex, Safety and Embodied Intimacy” (July 5, 2025) Link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-are-not-broken/id1495710329?i=1000715944578&r=495

    “Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence” by Esther Perel

     

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