AwakenYou in your Marriage

Post published:March 30, 2021

I was interviewed by Christine Bongiovanni for The AwakenYou in your Marriage Podcast. We discussed how to love your sex life. Listen here.

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Sex for Saints

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

Many husbands believe that because they’re married, sex should happen when they want it, and that they’ve been wronged when it doesn’t. In this episode, Amanda looks at where that belief comes from, the subtle ways it shows up after a “no,” and why threats and pressure end up getting husbands less of the sex they want. Through one couple’s journey from ultimatums to repair, she explores what it takes to stop feeling owed and start being chosen. She also offers guidance for wives living with a husband’s entitlement and for husbands whose wives won’t talk about it. If you’ve ever wondered whether sex is an obligation in marriage, this conversation is for you.

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