Happy With Yourself Podcast

Post published:August 28, 2020

I was interviewed by Becky Smith for the Happy With Yourself podcast. Episodes 77 & 78!

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Sex for Saints

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it isn’t invited first, especially in conversations about sex and intimacy. I walk through how unsolicited feedback triggers defensiveness in our nervous systems, why both higher-desire and lower-desire spouses fall into this pattern, and how asking for consent before sharing can completely change the conversation. We’ll also talk about practical ways to create emotional safety, move from defensiveness to curiosity, and build a marriage where both people actually feel heard. Sometimes the smallest shift, simply asking “Can I?”, can open the door to the kind of connection you’ve been wanting all along.

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Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help

June 26, 2026

Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating

June 19, 2026

Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection

June 12, 2026

Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage

June 5, 2026

Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom

May 29, 2026

Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt

May 22, 2026

Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways

May 15, 2026

Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide

May 8, 2026

Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole

May 1, 2026

Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve

April 24, 2026

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