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Episode 337 – Signs That Someone is Bad in Bed

  • Post published:October 4, 2024

Are you bad in bed? Is your spouse? Being “bad in bed” isn’t a thing that should cause shame or anger but it is something that needs to be looked…

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Communication

Episode 126 – Sexual Communication – Part 2

  • Post published:September 18, 2020

Welcome to Sexual Communication Part 2.  Let's get back to where we left off last week.  Today I will share the very first communication skill you need in your marriage.…

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Episode 125 – Sexual Communication – Part 1

  • Post published:September 11, 2020

Four faulty beliefs that keep us from communicating effectively.

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Honesty

Episode 118 – Honesty in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:July 24, 2020

Most of us consider ourselves to be honest people, to have integrity.   It may surprise you that this isn’t always the case.  Can you speak truthfully to your partner…

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How to Fight Fair in your Marriage, Communication

Episode 29 – How to Fight Fair in your Marriage

  • Post published:November 9, 2018

All couples have disagreements, but the ones who learn to solve their problems by fighting differently and fair are the ones who tend to stick together. In this episode I share 5 steps to fighting fair with your spouse.

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Improving Communication in Marriage

Episode 28 – The Marriage Inventory with Celeste Davis

  • Post published:November 2, 2018

Celeste Davis (MarriageLaboratory.com), joins me in discussing different experiments she has conducted in her marriage to improve communication.

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Episode 27 – Empathetic Listening

  • Post published:October 26, 2018

One of the keys to communication in marriage, is communicating well during a conflict.  Conflict is inevitable in any marriage.  Learning how to resolve those conflicts is key to sustaining…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want

    Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership.

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