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Episode 337 – Signs That Someone is Bad in Bed

  • Post published:October 4, 2024
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Are you bad in bed? Is your spouse? Being “bad in bed” isn’t a thing that should cause shame or anger but it is something that needs to be looked…

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Episode 126 – Sexual Communication – Part 2

  • Post published:September 18, 2020
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Welcome to Sexual Communication Part 2.  Let's get back to where we left off last week.  Today I will share the very first communication skill you need in your marriage.…

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Episode 125 – Sexual Communication – Part 1

  • Post published:September 11, 2020
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Four faulty beliefs that keep us from communicating effectively.

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Episode 118 – Honesty in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:July 24, 2020
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Most of us consider ourselves to be honest people, to have integrity.   It may surprise you that this isn’t always the case.  Can you speak truthfully to your partner…

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How to Fight Fair in your Marriage, Communication

Episode 29 – How to Fight Fair in your Marriage

  • Post published:November 9, 2018
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All couples have disagreements, but the ones who learn to solve their problems by fighting differently and fair are the ones who tend to stick together. In this episode I share 5 steps to fighting fair with your spouse.

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Improving Communication in Marriage

Episode 28 – The Marriage Inventory with Celeste Davis

  • Post published:November 2, 2018
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Celeste Davis (MarriageLaboratory.com), joins me in discussing different experiments she has conducted in her marriage to improve communication.

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Episode 27 – Empathetic Listening

  • Post published:October 26, 2018
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One of the keys to communication in marriage, is communicating well during a conflict.  Conflict is inevitable in any marriage.  Learning how to resolve those conflicts is key to sustaining…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

    In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is wired to see sexual vulnerability as a threat, how past experiences and conditioning shape the stories you believe, and why those stories feel so true even when they aren’t. We look at the specific lies that tend to show up for both higher-desire and lower-desire partners, and how those patterns keep couples stuck in fear, shame, and disconnection. I also share practical ways to recognize when your brain is lying, how to question those thoughts without judging yourself, and how curiosity can open the door to real intimacy again. If sex feels complicated, heavy, or confusing in your marriage, this episode will help you understand what’s actually happening and how to move forward with more clarity and compassion.

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