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Episode 257 – How Style Helps Your Confidence in the Bedroom – An Interview with Sheri Brasier

  • Post published:March 24, 2023
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In this episode, I’m talking to Sheri Brasier about how to gain more confidence in the bedroom. Sheri is a life and style coach which means that she empowers women…

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Episode 173 – My Experience with Boudoir Photography

  • Post published:August 13, 2021
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In this episode, I am going to get a little vulnerable with you and talk about my experience with boudoir photography. I, like you, had the wrong idea about what…

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Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

  • Post published:April 5, 2019
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What does your inner dialogue sound like?

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Episode 43 – Needing Validation

  • Post published:February 15, 2019
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When we understand who we are and our unchanging worth, needing outside validation is no longer something we need or crave.

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Episode 15 – Redefining Success

  • Post published:August 3, 2018
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What does success mean to you? What does a successful day look like to you?  What does a successful marriage look like to you?  Most of the time we define…

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Episode 11 – Other People’s Opinions Are None of Your Business

  • Post published:July 6, 2018
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Are you one of those people who gets offended by what other people say?  If someone says something about you, does it hurt you?  Let me teach you why other…

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Episode 10 – Challenging Relationships

  • Post published:June 29, 2018
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Whether you are dealing with a spouse, boss, or neighbor, you often have challenging relationships.  In this podcast I’ll share how you can make them work for you no matter…

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Episode 2 – Confidence

  • Post published:May 4, 2018
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How to build confidence in yourself so that you can be happier and show up better in your marriage and other relationships. Play in a new window Download Show Notes:…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

    Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

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