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Read more about the article Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

  • Post published:May 22, 2020

What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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Read more about the article Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

  • Post published:March 6, 2020

In this week's podcast, I tackle the subject of your sexuality.  What does it look like to you? What does it feel like? Our first impulse is to believe it…

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Read more about the article Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

  • Post published:January 10, 2020

How do you react when approached for sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

  • Post published:December 13, 2019

What turns you on? What turns you off?

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Read more about the article Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

  • Post published:December 6, 2019

Understanding the stages and knowing how your body responds helps you to see where you are and in what areas you might need a little help or to improve to create a fuller, richer experience and sex life.

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Read more about the article Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

  • Post published:March 15, 2019

Are you the higher desire partner in your relationship? In this episode, we discuss strategies to help you build the intimate relationship with your spouse that you’ve always wanted. Play…

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Cultivating Connection & Desire

Episode 34 – Cultivating Connection & Desire

  • Post published:December 14, 2018

So many women think they don’t want to have sex because they are tired or “touched out” at the end of the day. What was once a vital and important part of the marriage has taken a back seat to life and child rearing. In this episode, we examine how the thoughts you are telling yourself are killing your sex drive…and how you can get it back!

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch

    The men in my comments say the same thing over and over. She was one way before the wedding and another way after, and they feel like they were sold something that never got delivered. Women tell me the same thing from the other direction. He wanted to know everything about her before marriage, and now the only time he comes looking for her is when he wants sex. Both of them believe they got the bait and switch, and both of them are partly right. In this episode we look at what actually changed, which is not the people and not the facts, but the meanings underneath them. The way out is not deciding who lied. It is getting curious about what all of this means to the person you married.

    Get the worksheet at: www.amandalouder.com/podcast/441/

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