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Episode 129 – The Truth About Control

  • Post published:October 9, 2020
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Do you find yourself trying to be in control of situations or others? If you stop and question the emotion that is riding along with you. . .it is fear? …

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Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

  • Post published:April 17, 2020
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Is the desire for your spouse gone - or maybe it’s the other way around? Are there parts of your human imperfect self that you do not desire and would rather…

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Read more about the article Episode 9 – Getting Through An Anxiety Attack

Episode 9 – Getting Through An Anxiety Attack

  • Post published:June 22, 2018
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Do you or someone you love suffer from anxiety attacks? So does someone in my family.  Here is how I help them get through it, and it can help you…

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Episode 5 – Fear

  • Post published:May 25, 2018
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Are you living your life out of fear? Fear of the unknown? Fear of being hurt? Fear of failure? Fear of judgement? Fear of your emotions? Fear keeps us stuck and…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life

    Most of the fights in your marriage aren’t problems to solve. They’re paradoxes, and we get stuck the moment we try to pick a side instead of accepting both. In this episode, I dig into why our faith is built floor to ceiling on paradoxes, why the Stockdale Paradox (brutal honesty plus unshakable faith) separates couples who heal from couples who quietly erode, and why even the word “cleave” asks you to cling and stand apart at the same time. I share how my clients broke a three-year standoff not by resolving their paradox but by stepping into the middle of it. If you’ve been waiting for the tension in your marriage to disappear before things get good, this one’s for you.

    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life
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