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Episode 109 – Higher Desires and Lower Desires

Post published:May 22, 2020

What desires do you have and what is keeping you from achieving them?

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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

Here are the questions for this week’s episode.

Here is the link to the book I talk about, Fully Alive.

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