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Episode 211 – Becoming a Peacemaker in Your Sex Life: An Interview with Jessica Farmer

Post published:May 6, 2022
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In this episode, I’m talking with Jessica Farmer, a fellow life coach and friend, about how she went from being a peacekeeper to a peacemaker in her life and her…

Single To Sealed Podcast

Post published:April 5, 2021
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I was interviewed by Briahnna and Jerry for the Single To Sealed podcast where we talked about the six principles of sexual health and how they can be our guide…

Episode 116 – Painful Sex

Post published:July 10, 2020
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This week I had the privilege of interviewing Valerie Schwalbe from Well Being Physical Therapy in Murray, Utah, specializing in the pelvic floor. If you have pain during sex, pelvic pain,…

Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

Post published:February 14, 2020
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What excuses do you make to not have sex?

Conscious Parent Podcast

Post published:January 24, 2019
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I was interviewed by Alex Cantone of the Conscious Parent Podcast on overcoming divorce, blending families, and parenting a child with Bipolar II. Listen to the episode.

Marriage Laboratory

Post published:November 1, 2018
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I was interviewed by Celeste Davis of Marriage Laboratory on our false expectation of happiness in life and in marriage. Listen to the episode.

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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

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Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

February 20, 2026

Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)

February 13, 2026

Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive

February 6, 2026

Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex

January 30, 2026

Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

January 23, 2026

Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women