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Sexual disconnect in marriage

Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025
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You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

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Episode 325 – Why Sex Seems So Hard

  • Post published:July 12, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about a question I get asked all of the time. It’s said in different ways, but it all comes down to this -…

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Episode 304 – Female-Centric Sex

  • Post published:February 16, 2024
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I know that some of us, both men and women, feel that female-centric sex is selfish. But it absolutely is not! Let’s talk about why women may not want to…

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Episode 302 – When Your Partner Won’t Grow Sexually

  • Post published:February 2, 2024
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Sex, intimacy, and personal growth are all tied together. And when your partner doesn’t want to grow sexually, but you do, it can cause a lot of conflict. It’s not…

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Episode 300 – Celebrating 300 Episodes!

  • Post published:January 19, 2024
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Wow! Episode 300! I can hardly believe it! I remember nearly six years ago when I started this podcast that I could hardly imagine what 100 episodes would look like,…

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The Courageous and Confident Mom Podcast

  • Post published:August 25, 2023
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Are you one of those women who, when the topic of sex comes up, can't help but cringe a little? Do you feel like it's more of a burden than…

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Husbands in Law Podcast

  • Post published:July 17, 2023
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Let’s face it… Sex can feel scary and a bit overwhelming, especially if you have been in a relationship where there has been betrayal. I joined them to give you…

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Episode 238 – Coaching Amelia || Embracing You! Podcast Teaser!

  • Post published:November 11, 2022
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I have an exciting announcement! On December 6, I am debuting a brand new private podcast called Embracing You! In this new podcast, I will be sharing coaching sessions with…

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Episode 229 – Duty Sex

  • Post published:September 9, 2022
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What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it.…

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Episode 180 – The Good And Bad of Love Languages

  • Post published:October 1, 2021
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Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve heard about the 5 Love Languages and how you need to figure out what your spouse’s love language is and give them…

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Episode 174 – How I Fixed My Sexual Relationship: An Interview with Mike Peterson

  • Post published:August 20, 2021
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In this episode, I speak with Mike Peterson about his experiences with fixing his sexual relationship in his marriage. I am so excited to share with you the male perspective…

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Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:February 7, 2020
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6 Principles of Healthy Sexuality and what a healthy relationship looks like.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

    In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in marriage. I walk you through how learning your own body is essential before you can share that knowledge with your spouse, and how this experience becomes one of the clearest ways to show each other what actually feels good. We will dive into the vulnerability that comes with being seen in your own pleasure, and why that vulnerability is often what creates deeper emotional and sexual connection. I will also cover the importance of consent, communication, and when this might not be the right fit for every couple. If you’re looking to move away from performance-based sex and toward something more authentic and connected, this episode will give you a whole new perspective.

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    March 20, 2026
    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
    March 13, 2026
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    February 27, 2026
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    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
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    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
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