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Episode 214 – What We Chase Will Run

  • Post published:May 27, 2022

My clients often say that they don’t communicate well with their husbands, but actually, we as humans are really good at communicating. In fact, only about 7% of communication is…

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Episode 213 – Disgusted by Bodily Fluids

  • Post published:May 20, 2022

Are you disgusted by the bodily fluids of your partner? Maybe you’re disgusted by your own bodily fluids. If so, you are not alone. Many people feel this way. I…

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Co-Parenting with Confidence Podcast

  • Post published:May 18, 2022

I spoke with Mikki Gardner of the Co-Parenting with Confidence podcast. I shared with her the story of my marriage, divorce, co-parenting, and remarriage. Listen here.

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Episode 212 – Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection

  • Post published:May 13, 2022

Has sex become boring for you? Do you not want to have sex? Maybe you’re not having sex because there are so many other things that get in the way.…

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Episode 211 – Becoming a Peacemaker in Your Sex Life: An Interview with Jessica Farmer

  • Post published:May 6, 2022

In this episode, I’m talking with Jessica Farmer, a fellow life coach and friend, about how she went from being a peacekeeper to a peacemaker in her life and her…

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  • Post published:April 29, 2022

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Episode 210 – Blue Balls & Blue Beans

  • Post published:April 29, 2022

Are you reluctant to show any affection towards your husband because then he’ll want sex and you’ll have to give it to him? Maybe you’ve been told that when your…

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Episode 209 – Sexual Barometers

  • Post published:April 22, 2022

One of the questions I see the most in Facebook groups I follow is, “How do I know if my partner is turned on?” But I think that what they…

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Episode 208 – The Lie of “Happy Wife, Happy Life”: An Interview with Glenn Lovelace

  • Post published:April 15, 2022

We’ve all heard the phrase, “Happy Wife, Happy Life,” but my guest today, Glenn Lovelace, says that’s a lie. Listen to this episode to find out why he thinks it’s…

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The Cut the Chaos Podcast with Sandra Jarvis

  • Post published:April 11, 2022

I got to be a guest on The Cut the Chaos Podcast. We discussed the thought, "I do it for him," and why this is such a harmful thought for…

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Episode 207 – Creating Safety In Sex

  • Post published:April 8, 2022

I recently watched a ‘horse whisper’ do a lay down with a horse. If you’ve never seen this process, it is amazing! But unlike horses, who constantly think, “Am I…

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Episode 206 – Sex Before Marriage: Single Adults

  • Post published:April 1, 2022

I get asked a lot about the rules of sex before marriage when you’re adult. Are they the same as when you’re a teenager? The answer is harder than a…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 446 – Is Sex an Obligation in Marriage?

    Many husbands believe that because they’re married, sex should happen when they want it, and that they’ve been wronged when it doesn’t. In this episode, Amanda looks at where that belief comes from, the subtle ways it shows up after a “no,” and why threats and pressure end up getting husbands less of the sex they want. Through one couple’s journey from ultimatums to repair, she explores what it takes to stop feeling owed and start being chosen. She also offers guidance for wives living with a husband’s entitlement and for husbands whose wives won’t talk about it. If you’ve ever wondered whether sex is an obligation in marriage, this conversation is for you.

    Episode 446 – Is Sex an Obligation in Marriage?
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