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Episode 161 – Taking Sex from Good to Great

  • Post published:May 21, 2021
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How can you go from good sex to great sex? I get so many messages from all of you who have listened to the podcast saying how much it has…

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Episode 160 – Sex And Menopause: An Interview with Cami Hurst

  • Post published:May 14, 2021
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I got asked a question that I didn’t know the answer to so I brought in an expert! The question was about sex and menopause. Is it all over once…

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Episode 159 – 4 Keys to a Healthy, Passionate Marriage

  • Post published:May 7, 2021
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What do you want out of your marriage? I think we all want our marriages to be healthy and full of passion, right? But, how do you do that? Today…

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April 2021

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Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

  • Post published:May 3, 2021
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I was interviewed by Amy and Nick with The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast. We discussed how self love can impact emotional and physical intimacy. Listen here.

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Episode 158 – Sexual Scarcity

  • Post published:April 30, 2021
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When something is scarce, you want it more! (Remember the toilet paper shortage of 2020?) So what does this have to do with sex and marriage? When you’re not having…

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Episode 157 – Transactional Sex

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What exactly is transactional sex?  The idea that your relationship could include this type of sex is probably something you may not even be aware of - but there’s definitely…

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Episode 156 – The Disappearing Orgasm

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The Latter-Day Life Coaches Podcast

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I was interviewed by Heather Rackham for The Latter-Day Life Coaches Podcast. We discussed how to embrace your sexuality and what that means in the context of our belief systems.…

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Episode 155 – Vacation Sex

  • Post published:April 9, 2021
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Whether you are in a tropical location, exploring a new city, or tucked away somewhere remote, time out of your usual routine is so good for the mind, body, and…

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March 2021

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Single to Sealed Podcast Interview

Single To Sealed Podcast

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I was interviewed by Briahnna and Jerry for the Single To Sealed podcast where we talked about the six principles of sexual health and how they can be our guide…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)

    In this episode of Sex for Saints, I walk through the six stages of marriage and explain why so many couples feel stuck, disconnected, or ready to give up around stage three. I break down what each stage looks like in real life, from the honeymoon phase to frustration, growth, true love, and legacy, using real client stories to show what’s actually happening beneath the conflict. We talk about why stage three feels like failure, how emotional triggers and unmet needs collide there, and why this stage is not a sign you married the wrong person but an invitation to learn new relationship skills. I also explain how emotional regulation, boundary setting, and clean communication move couples into deeper intimacy, passion, and long-term connection. If your marriage feels hard right now, this episode will help you understand where you are and what it takes to move forward together instead of drifting apart.

    Source: The six stages framework referenced in this episode comes from mental.aspect on Instagram.

    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
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    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
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    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
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    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
    Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire
    December 19, 2025
    Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage
    December 12, 2025
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