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Overcoming Resentment

  • Post published:March 11, 2021
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The Expat Mom

  • Post published:March 7, 2021
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I was interviewed by Jennifer Linton for The Expat Mom Podcast. We discussed how to create more desire in your marriage. Listen here.

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The Legit Motherhood Podcast (2nd Interview)

  • Post published:March 7, 2021
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I was interviewed by Haili Murch for the This is Legit Motherhood podcast for the second time.  This time we discussed the importance of touch and how to get in…

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Episode 150 – The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction

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According to the Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction there are 3 positive. . .and 3 negative levels of sex in a partnership. Today I will go into each level with…

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Connecting With Your Spouse

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Episode 149 – The Hard Work of Marriage

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We have all heard or lived through the phrase that marriage is hard work.  Today I am digging into why it is hard, why it requires so much work.  The…

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Better Communication in Marriage

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Episode 148 – Sex and Chronic Pain or Illness

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Episode 147 – 10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship

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What does a healthy relationship look like?  Today I will give you ten warning signs that you may need to examine.  You may need to get some help or even…

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Episode 146 – When Sex is Boring

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Sex should be anything but boring, but what I am hearing from many of you . . . is that it is exactly that.  The good news is that It…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    Sexual rejection is one of the most painful experiences in marriage, but is your spouse really rejecting you or just rejecting sex? In this episode, I break down the two types of rejection, how to tell the difference, and why understanding this can change everything in your relationship. We’ll talk about what rejection looks like when it’s personal, what it looks like when it’s not, and how to stop letting painful stories in your head dictate the way you feel. If you’ve ever wondered, “What’s really happening when my spouse says no?” this conversation will give you clarity, hope, and practical steps forward.

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