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Episode 340 – Four Reasons She’s Not In The Mood

  • Post published:October 25, 2024
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Desire is a topic that comes up a lot in my coaching business. Couples often wonder why she's just not in the mood so in this episode, we're going to…

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Episode 339 – Sexual Leftovers

  • Post published:October 18, 2024
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Have you ever felt like your sex life is stuck in a predictable, comfortable routine? It’s not unusual to feel this way but how do you get out of it?…

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Episode 338 – The Importance of Aftercare

  • Post published:October 11, 2024
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What is aftercare? Well, to put it simply, it’s what happens after you have sex. Do you jump right up and go on with your day or do you take…

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Episode 337 – Signs That Someone is Bad in Bed

  • Post published:October 4, 2024
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Are you bad in bed? Is your spouse? Being “bad in bed” isn’t a thing that should cause shame or anger but it is something that needs to be looked…

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Episode 336 – When Erections Fade – Understanding, Supporting, and Thriving Together

  • Post published:September 27, 2024
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Even though this topic can feel a little awkward, frustrating, and even scary, I think it’s important to talk about because all couples will probably have this happen from time…

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  • Post published:September 25, 2024
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I really would like you to check out this article from DatingAdvice.com. We talk about how years of chastity lessons can really affect a marriage. It's a wonderful article! I…

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Episode 335 – The Benefits of Sleeping Nude

  • Post published:September 20, 2024
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Is it time to ditch your pajamas? This topic may make you blush, but let’s talk about why we might want to think about sleeping nude or partially nude. From…

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Episode 334 – What to do with Unanswered Arousal

  • Post published:September 13, 2024
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Let’s be honest, most of us were not taught what to do when our arousal was unanswered. So, let’s talk about it. What happens when we’re turned on, but our…

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Episode 333 – Breaking Free of Sexual Archetypes

  • Post published:September 6, 2024
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What is an archetype? In very simple terms, it’s a “should”. As the man, I “should” be the primary breadwinner. As the woman, I “should” cater to my husband’s sexual…

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Episode 332 – What Is Your Touch Communicating

  • Post published:August 30, 2024
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I often see people wanting to uplevel their sex lives, but ignoring non-sexual touch completely. But, non-sexual physical intimacy is just as important, if not more important than sexual intimacy.…

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Episode 331 – Are Your Teens Interrupting Your Sex Life?

  • Post published:August 23, 2024
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I recently got a DM from a listener asking me how to navigate her sexual relationship with teens in the house. We often think that little kids make it harder…

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Episode 330 – Consumption vs Connection

  • Post published:August 16, 2024
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I recently had the opportunity to be a guest on the Therapy Brothers Podcast. I talked with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection. I really enjoyed…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him

    What if the messages you received about sexuality shaped you more than you ever realized? In this third episode of my series, I explore how decades of cultural and religious teachings affected the way many men experience desire, shame, intimacy, and marriage. Through the stories of Bennett and Silas, I unpack how those messages can show up in very different ways and why healing begins by coming home to your own body instead of trying to earn your worth. I hope this episode gives you a deeper understanding of yourself and the path toward healthier, more connected intimacy.

    Listen to the first episode in the series here. And the second episode in the series here.

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    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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