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Episode 336 – When Erections Fade – Understanding, Supporting, and Thriving Together

  • Post published:September 27, 2024
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Even though this topic can feel a little awkward, frustrating, and even scary, I think it’s important to talk about because all couples will probably have this happen from time…

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DatingAdvice.com

  • Post published:September 25, 2024
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I really would like you to check out this article from DatingAdvice.com. We talk about how years of chastity lessons can really affect a marriage. It's a wonderful article! I…

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Episode 335 – The Benefits of Sleeping Nude

  • Post published:September 20, 2024
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Is it time to ditch your pajamas? This topic may make you blush, but let’s talk about why we might want to think about sleeping nude or partially nude. From…

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Episode 334 – What to do with Unanswered Arousal

  • Post published:September 13, 2024
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Let’s be honest, most of us were not taught what to do when our arousal was unanswered. So, let’s talk about it. What happens when we’re turned on, but our…

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Read more about the article Episode 333 – Breaking Free of Sexual Archetypes

Episode 333 – Breaking Free of Sexual Archetypes

  • Post published:September 6, 2024
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What is an archetype? In very simple terms, it’s a “should”. As the man, I “should” be the primary breadwinner. As the woman, I “should” cater to my husband’s sexual…

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Read more about the article Episode 332 – What Is Your Touch Communicating

Episode 332 – What Is Your Touch Communicating

  • Post published:August 30, 2024
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I often see people wanting to uplevel their sex lives, but ignoring non-sexual touch completely. But, non-sexual physical intimacy is just as important, if not more important than sexual intimacy.…

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Episode 331 – Are Your Teens Interrupting Your Sex Life?

  • Post published:August 23, 2024
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I recently got a DM from a listener asking me how to navigate her sexual relationship with teens in the house. We often think that little kids make it harder…

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Episode 330 – Consumption vs Connection

  • Post published:August 16, 2024
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I recently had the opportunity to be a guest on the Therapy Brothers Podcast. I talked with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection. I really enjoyed…

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Episode 329 – A Different Way to Approach Sex

  • Post published:August 9, 2024
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What if I told you that the way you have been thinking about sex is wrong? What if that’s the reason you don’t have the sex life that you thought…

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Episode 328 – Fantasy vs Desire

  • Post published:August 2, 2024
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I’ve noticed a lot of people expressing problems with their spouse’s fantasies. They don’t understand certain fantasies, and they are afraid that their spouse wants to turn them into reality.…

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Fresh Living on KUTV

  • Post published:July 30, 2024
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In this great TV interview, I got to speak with Kari Hawker-Diaz of Fresh Living about the impact of marriage on women's health. So, if you're looking to improve your…

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Episode 327 – Traits of Healthy Couples

  • Post published:July 26, 2024
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Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Many of us don’t because our parents didn’t know what a healthy couple looked like either. But we can change that…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating

    How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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