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Episode 147 – 10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship

  • Post published:February 12, 2021
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What does a healthy relationship look like?  Today I will give you ten warning signs that you may need to examine.  You may need to get some help or even…

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Episode 146 – When Sex is Boring

  • Post published:February 5, 2021
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Sex should be anything but boring, but what I am hearing from many of you . . . is that it is exactly that.  The good news is that It…

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Episode 145 – Codependency

  • Post published:January 29, 2021
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Many of our marriage stories start out the same- but what happens after we say “I do?” That is where things can start to change.  You may have started to…

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Episode 144 – Five Mistakes Men Make In Bed

  • Post published:January 22, 2021
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 Last week in the podcast, we discussed 5 mistakes women make in bed.  So today let’s chat about five mistakes for men.  Neither of you want to think about or…

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Episode 143 – Five Mistakes Women Make In Bed

  • Post published:January 15, 2021
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Today I want to talk about the top 5 mistakes women make in bed, the reasons that keep them from getting aroused and enjoying sex to the fullest.  Join me…

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Episode 142 – The Madonna/Whore Complex

  • Post published:January 8, 2021
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Why have many in the past believed and taught that it is impossible to be a sexual being and a loving and gentle wife and mother?  Freud believed you needed…

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Episode 141 – Sexual Maturity

  • Post published:January 1, 2021
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Welcome to Live From Love and to 2021!  The podcast today is a great way to begin your year.  New thoughts, new ideas and new adventures in your marriage.  You…

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Episode 140 – Sexy New Year Replay

  • Post published:December 24, 2020
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Welcome 2021!  This week for the podcast I am going back to the vault and bringing out one of my favorite podcasts - wrapped around goals and resolutions in your…

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Episode 139 – Why You Need a Vibrator

  • Post published:December 18, 2020
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Last week I discussed sex toys, but this week I am taking a deep dive into vibrators.  Did you know that most women need 45-60 minutes to move from 0…

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Episode 138 – Sex Toys 101

  • Post published:December 11, 2020
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I get a lot of questions concerning sex toys. What ones are best, are they appropriate, what materials should I be looking for. . and so much more.  Tune in…

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Episode 137 – The Five Gears of Touch

  • Post published:December 4, 2020
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Today, I’m going to discuss the five gears of touch by Barry W. McCarthy - a certified sex and couples therapist.  Gear 1 begins with affectionate touch and gear 5…

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Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020
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When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    Most of the fights in your marriage aren’t problems to solve. They’re paradoxes, and we get stuck the moment we try to pick a side instead of accepting both. In this episode, I dig into why our faith is built floor to ceiling on paradoxes, why the Stockdale Paradox (brutal honesty plus unshakable faith) separates couples who heal from couples who quietly erode, and why even the word “cleave” asks you to cling and stand apart at the same time. I share how my clients broke a three-year standoff not by resolving their paradox but by stepping into the middle of it. If you’ve been waiting for the tension in your marriage to disappear before things get good, this one’s for you.

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