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Scarcity
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Episode 158 – Sexual Scarcity

  • Post published:April 30, 2021

When something is scarce, you want it more! (Remember the toilet paper shortage of 2020?) So what does this have to do with sex and marriage? When you’re not having…

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TRANSACTIONAL SEX

Episode 157 – Transactional Sex

  • Post published:April 23, 2021

What exactly is transactional sex?  The idea that your relationship could include this type of sex is probably something you may not even be aware of - but there’s definitely…

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Episode 156 – The Disappearing Orgasm

  • Post published:April 16, 2021

Description Here Play in a new window Download Show Notes: Follow Amanda on Facebook and Instagram.Join Amanda's Private Facebook Group.References for this episode: www.bustle.com Show Summary: Have you ever felt…

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Vacation Sex

Episode 155 – Vacation Sex

  • Post published:April 9, 2021

Whether you are in a tropical location, exploring a new city, or tucked away somewhere remote, time out of your usual routine is so good for the mind, body, and…

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Episode 154 – Adding Fun and Variety To Your Sex Life

  • Post published:April 2, 2021

I am so excited for the podcast today. I will be joined by Dan Purcell. He and his wife Emily are the founders of “Get Your Marriage On.”  Dan is…

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Episode 153 – Sexual Feasts, Famines, and Snacks

  • Post published:March 26, 2021

When it comes to sex, sometimes you want a feast, sometimes you want a snack, and sometimes you go through periods of famine.  And today I am going to jump…

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Episode 152 – How The Vagina and the Voice Are Connected

  • Post published:March 19, 2021

Last year I had the opportunity to hear Stephanie Sorensen speak at a sexual education event.  I found myself completely fascinated and furiously taking notes. Today she will share many…

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Speak Your Truth

Episode 151 – Speaking Your Truth

  • Post published:March 12, 2021

Did you know we all tell ourselves lies as a way to protect ourselves?  On the podcast I am talking about what those lies look like in different aspects of…

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Maltz Hierarchy

Episode 150 – The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction

  • Post published:March 5, 2021

According to the Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction there are 3 positive. . .and 3 negative levels of sex in a partnership. Today I will go into each level with…

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Episode 149 – The Hard Work of Marriage

  • Post published:February 26, 2021

We have all heard or lived through the phrase that marriage is hard work.  Today I am digging into why it is hard, why it requires so much work.  The…

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Episode 148 – Sex and Chronic Pain or Illness

  • Post published:February 19, 2021

Description Here Play in a new window Download Show Notes: Follow Amanda on Facebook and Instagram.Join Amanda's Private Facebook Group.References for this episode: www.mayoclinic.org Show Summary: Sex and intimacy are…

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healthy relationship

Episode 147 – 10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship

  • Post published:February 12, 2021

What does a healthy relationship look like?  Today I will give you ten warning signs that you may need to examine.  You may need to get some help or even…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 446 – Is Sex an Obligation in Marriage?

    Many husbands believe that because they’re married, sex should happen when they want it, and that they’ve been wronged when it doesn’t. In this episode, Amanda looks at where that belief comes from, the subtle ways it shows up after a “no,” and why threats and pressure end up getting husbands less of the sex they want. Through one couple’s journey from ultimatums to repair, she explores what it takes to stop feeling owed and start being chosen. She also offers guidance for wives living with a husband’s entitlement and for husbands whose wives won’t talk about it. If you’ve ever wondered whether sex is an obligation in marriage, this conversation is for you.

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