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Episode 340 – Four Reasons She’s Not In The Mood

  • Post published:October 25, 2024
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Desire is a topic that comes up a lot in my coaching business. Couples often wonder why she's just not in the mood so in this episode, we're going to…

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Episode 272 – Decision Not Desire

  • Post published:July 7, 2023
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So many women I’ve talked to have said that they don’t have any desire to have sex anymore. It’s just gone. Now, I’ve talked about desire a lot on this…

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Episode 230 – Sex Isn’t A Drive

  • Post published:September 16, 2022
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Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think…

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Episode 217 – Reclaiming Desire & Eros

  • Post published:June 17, 2022
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Do you remember what it was like when you were dating your husband? Every touch was electric. You felt alive, maybe for the first time. That was eros energy. The…

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Episode 190 – Creating the Space for Desire

  • Post published:December 10, 2021
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Do you desire sex? If you said no, why is that? Is it because you have lost your desire completely or is it because you aren’t giving yourself enough space…

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Get Your Marriage On Podcast

  • Post published:December 30, 2020
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Breaking Free of Limiting Beliefs for a Better Sex Life with Amanda Louder If you want to embrace your sexuality and love your sex life, then this episode is for…

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Breaking The Silence Podcast

  • Post published:December 16, 2020
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I was interviewed by Creed and Crishelle of Breaking The Silence Podcast. We discussed how I teach clients all day about how to better their sexual health, and as a mom…

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Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020
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When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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Episode 133 – Competing Desires

  • Post published:November 6, 2020
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 Does your spouse think he is not a priority in your life?  Could he be right?  Today I will dive into true desire and false desire and how to manage…

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Brighter Side of Marriage Podcast

  • Post published:September 14, 2020
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I was interviewed by Monica Tanner of Brighter Side of Marriage Podcast.  We discuss how to change your mindset to increase desire and why that is so beneficial to becoming…

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Episode 124 – The Higher Desire Wife

  • Post published:September 4, 2020
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You asked for it - you got it.  To all of you women who are the higher desire partner - here you go. This podcast will go over emotional, physical…

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Episode 115 – Fantasy

  • Post published:July 3, 2020
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 Let’s talk about fantasy. When it comes to sex, what is an appropriate fantasy and what is not? What benefits the marriage and what destroys it? Today I will teach…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 394 – The Unexpected Intimacy of Creating Intimacy Products with Justin and Natalie Weeks

    In this episode, I’m sitting down with Justin and Natalie Weeks, the founders of Evree Intimate Massage Oil and Lubricant, to talk about how one thoughtful idea completely transformed their intimacy and could change yours too. We dive into the surprising benefits of using a truly natural, skin-loving intimate product, why lube is essential (not optional!), and how communication and playfulness can take a good marriage and make it great. Justin and Natalie share their story of creating a product that’s 100% natural, edible, safe for sensitive skin, and doubles as both a massage oil and lubricant, plus how it’s changed the way they connect in and out of the bedroom. Whether you’re navigating dryness, menopause, or just wanting more pleasure and connection, this conversation is full of encouragement and practical insight for couples of faith. Tune in to hear why investing in intimacy matters and how something as simple as the right lubricant can bring more joy, confidence, and closeness into your marriage.

    Episode 394 – The Unexpected Intimacy of Creating Intimacy Products with Justin and Natalie Weeks
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    Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love
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    Episode 390 – The Brain Chemistry of Sex
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    Episode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex
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    Episode 386 – Blending Your Erotic Minds: How Novelty and Intimacy Keep Marriage Hot an Interview with Katie Runyan
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    Episode 385 – The Dangerous Illusion of Sexual Certainty
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