Archive Archives - Amanda Louder Coaching

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating

June 19, 2026

Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection

June 12, 2026

Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage

June 5, 2026

Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom

May 29, 2026

Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt

May 22, 2026

Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways