Archive Archives - Amanda Louder Coaching

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

In this episode, I talk about a struggle I hear from women all the time but that rarely gets named out loud: loving your husband deeply while feeling disconnected from his body. I discuss where that discomfort often comes from, especially for women who grew up with strong messages about modesty, safety, and avoiding anything sexual before marriage. I explain how that conditioning can quietly shape how you see male bodies, how it affects your intimacy, and what your husband may be experiencing on the other side of it. I also share how attraction can be learned, how safety and curiosity can replace fear and avoidance, and the real steps you can take to begin seeing your husband’s body differently. This episode is an honest, compassionate look at how body acceptance can transform not just your sex life, but the emotional connection in your marriage too.

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Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive

February 6, 2026

Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex

January 30, 2026

Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

January 23, 2026

Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women

January 16, 2026

Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier

January 9, 2026

Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering