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Read more about the article Eat Well, Think Well, Live Well Podcast

Eat Well, Think Well, Live Well Podcast

  • Post published:October 26, 2023
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We discuss why we would want to pay attention to our sexual lives. We discuss the anxiety reduction, confidence boosting, overall good feelings that healthy sexuality can produce.  While I…

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Self Care Simplified Podcast

  • Post published:October 5, 2023
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I got to talk to Megan from Self Care Simplified Podcast. We talked all about how your sex life actually plays a vital role in your self-care.  Here are some…

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Parenting Passionately Podcast

  • Post published:October 2, 2023
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Sex in partnerships is often an overlooked subject- but something that affects every other aspect of our relationship too. How do we move past sexual shame and have a vibrant…

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Get Your Marriage On Podcast

  • Post published:October 2, 2023
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One of the paths to a stronger marriage is by doing the work necessary to have a great sex life as a couple. Why start with sex? It’s because there’s…

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Weight Loss for LDS Moms Podcast

  • Post published:September 12, 2023
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If your post baby bod makes you cringe at the thought of intimacy. This episode is for you! I spoke with Corey Pickett of Weight Loss for LDS Moms about…

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The Courageous and Confident Mom Podcast

  • Post published:August 25, 2023
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Are you one of those women who, when the topic of sex comes up, can't help but cringe a little? Do you feel like it's more of a burden than…

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Husbands in Law Podcast

  • Post published:July 17, 2023
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Let’s face it… Sex can feel scary and a bit overwhelming, especially if you have been in a relationship where there has been betrayal. I joined them to give you…

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Believing you ARE a Good Mom Podcast

  • Post published:June 1, 2023
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I was interviewed by Emily Wardrop of Believe you ARE a Good Mom podcast. We talked about how sex is for YOU even when your kids are young. Listen here. 

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Overcome Pornography for Good Podcast

  • Post published:May 16, 2023
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Many of us have received the conditioning that men are typically the sexual ones in a relationship and that they have an insatiable sexual need that has to be satisfied.…

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Path to Podcast Success

  • Post published:March 15, 2023
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I joined them on Path to Podcast Success, and you won’t want to miss our deep dive into all things entrepreneurship, podcasting, and business success. Get ready to take a…

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Joy in the Journey Podcast

  • Post published:March 15, 2023
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In this episode, we talk about love after divorce and how I found joy in the journey. Listen here.

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LDS Confessions Podcast

  • Post published:February 15, 2023
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In this episode, I talk about different things couples can do to improve their sex lives. We discussed good orgasms, sex toys and how to communicate with our partners. Listen here.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help

    What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it isn’t invited first, especially in conversations about sex and intimacy. I walk through how unsolicited feedback triggers defensiveness in our nervous systems, why both higher-desire and lower-desire spouses fall into this pattern, and how asking for consent before sharing can completely change the conversation. We’ll also talk about practical ways to create emotional safety, move from defensiveness to curiosity, and build a marriage where both people actually feel heard. Sometimes the smallest shift, simply asking “Can I?”, can open the door to the kind of connection you’ve been wanting all along.

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    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
    June 26, 2026
    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
    June 19, 2026
    Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
    June 12, 2026
    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
    June 5, 2026
    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
    May 29, 2026
    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
    May 22, 2026
    Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
    May 15, 2026
    Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide
    May 8, 2026
    Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole
    May 1, 2026
    Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve
    April 24, 2026
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