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Last week we talked about how to increase the sexual connection during the holidays.  I think one of the best ways to do that is to build in sexy gifts and traditions into your holiday season. So in this festive episode, we’re unwrapping secrets to ensure that this Christmas becomes a celebration of love like no other.  

Many times when we are thinking about gifts for our spouse we are thinking about what they want and what they possibly need. And that’s great, but I think as a couple it’s important to use this time to give each other something that helps turn up the heat and the desire in the bedroom. There are all kinds of ways that you can do this. It can be elaborate or simple things that can fit into any budget.  

Idea 1: Setting the Scene

As a Christmas gift to yourself and your spouse, consider investing in transforming your bedroom into a sexual sanctuary.  Think about investing time in transforming your space – dim the lights, let scented candles dance in the background, and cue up a playlist of soft, soul-stirring tunes. This sets the stage for a night that transcends the ordinary and becomes a memory you’ll both cherish. Embrace the power of sensory indulgence, using plush textures, inviting scents, mood lighting, and soft music to create an atmosphere that invites intimacy and connection.

Idea 2: Sexy Stocking Stuffers

Why let the stockings be merely repositories for tiny trinkets and sugary delights? This Christmas, elevate the excitement by slipping in some sultry surprises. Imagine reaching into your stocking to discover luxurious massage oils, scented candles that promise to ignite more than just flames, or perhaps a handwritten love note expressing your deepest desires. These small yet thoughtful additions can turn the act of gift-giving into a tantalizing prelude, creating an atmosphere of anticipation and intimacy. For him, consider a sleek, personalized grooming kit or a stylish piece of men’s lingerie. For her, think about luxurious lingerie sets, a set of scented massage oils, or perhaps a beautifully crafted piece of intimate jewelry. These gifts not only stimulate the senses but also show a level of thoughtfulness that can deepen your connection.

Idea 3: Intimate Traditions

Building traditions can infuse your holiday season with a special kind of magic. Consider adopting your own mistletoe tradition – perhaps designating a specific spot in your home where a simple kiss transforms into something more. This playful ritual not only keeps the festive spirit alive but adds an element of anticipation and flirtation to your celebrations. Another idea is to exchange handwritten love letters, a timeless and personal touch that allows you to express your desires and appreciation for each other in a way that transcends the ordinary. Cultivate a tradition of shared experiences, such as preparing a special holiday meal together or enjoying a cozy night of sharing your favorite memories from the past year. These traditions build a foundation of intimacy, making your holiday celebrations uniquely yours.

Idea 4: Sensual Advent Calendar

Imagine creating a bespoke sensual advent calendar, a unique countdown to Christmas filled with anticipation and shared pleasures. Over the course of the next few weeks each night opening a door to unveil a new intimate experience, a shared fantasy, or a special activity for the two of you. This could range from a cozy night in with your favorite movies to a surprise date night that reignites the spark. It’s a playful and imaginative way to weave intimacy into the fabric of the holiday season, ensuring that the flame of passion burns brightly throughout. Consider adding items like sexy lingerie, intimate toys, or vouchers for special acts of love to your advent calendar. These daily surprises not only build anticipation but also provide opportunities to explore new aspects of your intimacy.

Idea 5: Mindful Connection

Amidst the flurry of holiday activities, it’s crucial to carve out moments for mindful connection with your partner. These moments need not be extravagant; sometimes, it’s the simple acts that create the most profound connections. A warm embrace, a lingering kiss beneath the mistletoe, or a quiet night spent together can serve as anchors, grounding you in the essence of the season – love, togetherness, and shared joy. Remember, it’s the depth of connection that transforms these moments into cherished memories. Consider creating a “mindful moments” jar where you both contribute small notes suggesting activities or gestures that foster connection. Draw one each day and make it a shared commitment to incorporate these moments into your busy holiday schedule.

Idea 6: The gift that keeps on giving

Now, let’s explore a scintillating avenue to keep the flames of desire burning bright throughout the holiday season – the gift of sexy subscription services. What better way to surprise and delight your partner than with a carefully curated monthly box that adds an element of anticipation and excitement to your intimate moments?  Whether it’s a monthly box like The Fantasy Box or Faithful Fling, or an underwear of the month club, incorporating a sexy subscription service into your holiday traditions adds a layer of excitement and novelty, turning ordinary evenings into unforgettable experiences. It’s a gift that transcends the material, creating a space for shared exploration and intimacy that lasts long after the holiday season has passed. So, why not unwrap the gift of anticipation and pleasure this Christmas and embark on a journey of discovery together?

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As we wrap up this special episode on infusing passion into your Christmas celebrations, I hope you’re feeling inspired to create moments that transcend the ordinary and elevate your intimacy. Thank you for joining me today.  I want to wish you a wonderful Christmas season filled with warmth, connection, and a touch of sensual magic. Until next time, remember, love is a journey, not a destination. Stay committed, stay passionate, and stay connected. Goodbye for now.