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Episode 246 – What is a Covenant Marriage? – An Interview with Aimée Gianni

  • Post published:January 6, 2023
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In this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. So often we stay in our broken marriages because we…

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The LDS Divorce Coach – Intimacy After Divorce

  • Post published:February 17, 2020
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  I was interview by Emily Sanchez, an LDS Divorce Coach.  We discussed intimacy and sex when you are in between marriage an also once you are remarried.  Listen here.

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Wilted Flower (Part 2)

  • Post published:March 21, 2019
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I’ve often written and spoken about how lost I was when I was married to my first husband. In my post yesterday I talked about being a wilted flower. A…

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Wilted Flower

  • Post published:March 20, 2019
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When I was a teenager I was vibrant, a high-achiever, confident, and wouldn’t let anything stop me. Fast forward to my late 20s and I was an empty shell. There…

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Episode 24 – Are We Really Meant To Be

  • Post published:October 5, 2018
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Have you ever thought “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Are we really meant to be?” Just about every married person I know has had those thoughts. But in this episode, we talk about why those thoughts aren’t serving you and your marriage.

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Should I get divorced, Contemplating Divorce

Episode 1 – Should I Get Divorced?

  • Post published:April 27, 2018
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Are you contemplating divorce?  It's a big decision.  In this episode I share 5 things I think you should before you make that decision.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women

    In this episode, I want to talk about something a lot of women quietly wonder but rarely say out loud: what if sex isn’t bad, but it’s also not very good? In this episode, I unpack why so many women experience sex as “meh,” even in loving marriages where both partners are trying. We look at how expectations, anatomy, mental patterns, and our relationship with pleasure all shape how sex actually feels. I explain why nothing is broken about you if sex hasn’t lived up to the hype, and how pleasure is something that’s learned, not automatic. If you’ve ever wondered why sex feels underwhelming or why you’d rather do almost anything else, this conversation will help you understand what’s really going on and what can change.

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