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Episode 246 – What is a Covenant Marriage? – An Interview with Aimée Gianni

  • Post published:January 6, 2023
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In this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. So often we stay in our broken marriages because we…

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The LDS Divorce Coach – Intimacy After Divorce

  • Post published:February 17, 2020
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  I was interview by Emily Sanchez, an LDS Divorce Coach.  We discussed intimacy and sex when you are in between marriage an also once you are remarried.  Listen here.

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Wilted Flower (Part 2)

  • Post published:March 21, 2019
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I’ve often written and spoken about how lost I was when I was married to my first husband. In my post yesterday I talked about being a wilted flower. A…

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Wilted Flower

  • Post published:March 20, 2019
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When I was a teenager I was vibrant, a high-achiever, confident, and wouldn’t let anything stop me. Fast forward to my late 20s and I was an empty shell. There…

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Episode 24 – Are We Really Meant To Be

  • Post published:October 5, 2018
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Have you ever thought “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Are we really meant to be?” Just about every married person I know has had those thoughts. But in this episode, we talk about why those thoughts aren’t serving you and your marriage.

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Should I get divorced, Contemplating Divorce

Episode 1 – Should I Get Divorced?

  • Post published:April 27, 2018
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Are you contemplating divorce?  It's a big decision.  In this episode I share 5 things I think you should before you make that decision.

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    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire

    Many women assume their lack of desire means something is wrong with them, but in this episode, I am going to explain that the real issue is often passive sexuality. We’ll explore the difference between waiting for a spouse to create desire and actively engaging with your own sexuality. Through stories from real clients, I’ll show how small shifts, like noticing attraction, savoring memories of intimacy, or anticipating connection, can gradually change how you experience your sexual relationship. I will also connect this idea to the principle of agency, reminding us that sexuality in marriage is something we can actively cultivate. By moving from passive to active sexuality, couples can experience deeper connection, more engagement, and a renewed sense of ownership in their intimate relationship.

    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
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