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Episode 219 – Conscious Partnerships

  • Post published:July 1, 2022
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When we get married, we often think that if we married the “right person,” then everything will be easy. This is simply not true. Every relationship takes work. In this…

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Episode 212 – Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection

  • Post published:May 13, 2022
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Has sex become boring for you? Do you not want to have sex? Maybe you’re not having sex because there are so many other things that get in the way.…

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Relationship 411 Podcast

  • Post published:January 24, 2022
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I was interviewed by Kevin and Jennifer of the Relationship 411 Podcast. We got to talk all about sex and I answered all their questions.  Listen to Part 1 here and Part 2…

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The Doctor’s Wife Podcast

  • Post published:October 27, 2021
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I was interviewed by Sara Payne with The Doctor's Wife Podcast. We talk openly, honestly, and vulnerably about embracing your sexuality. Every woman should listen to this episode and share it…

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The Positively You Podcast

  • Post published:October 21, 2021
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I was interviewed by Jessie Larson with The Positively You Podcast. We chatted about how when you embrace your sexuality, EVERYTHING gets better and you can show up in all…

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Episode 171 – Equality in Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

  • Post published:July 30, 2021
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about equality in marriage. This is something that is ingrained in our culture but can be really detrimental to our marriages.…

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Episode 168 – Consent within Marriage

  • Post published:July 9, 2021
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Consent is truly a buzzword right now. In this episode, we take a look at what consent truly means, in your sex life and beyond, and how we can be…

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The Single to Sealed Podcast

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I was interviewed by the Single to Sealed podcast. We chatted about everything from how to manage sexpectations before marriage, how to set boundaries with your partner before marriage, how…

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Episode 161 – Taking Sex from Good to Great

  • Post published:May 21, 2021
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How can you go from good sex to great sex? I get so many messages from all of you who have listened to the podcast saying how much it has…

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Episode 159 – 4 Keys to a Healthy, Passionate Marriage

  • Post published:May 7, 2021
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What do you want out of your marriage? I think we all want our marriages to be healthy and full of passion, right? But, how do you do that? Today…

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Single To Sealed Podcast

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I was interviewed by Briahnna and Jerry for the Single To Sealed podcast where we talked about the six principles of sexual health and how they can be our guide…

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Episode 130 – Sex & Pregnancy

  • Post published:October 16, 2020
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Pregnancy can be a magical time- but it can also be a scary time.  There are so many unexpected changes, added hormones and a changing body.  This can have an…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help

    What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it isn’t invited first, especially in conversations about sex and intimacy. I walk through how unsolicited feedback triggers defensiveness in our nervous systems, why both higher-desire and lower-desire spouses fall into this pattern, and how asking for consent before sharing can completely change the conversation. We’ll also talk about practical ways to create emotional safety, move from defensiveness to curiosity, and build a marriage where both people actually feel heard. Sometimes the smallest shift, simply asking “Can I?”, can open the door to the kind of connection you’ve been wanting all along.

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